Military secrets?

Question

My boyfriend has been in the guard since i met him. First the army now air force. He always gets "laid off" his jobs then moves states. This has been going on for years. I think there is something he is involved in that he is hiding. Any ideas what? We live together now, am i in danger? He told me there are things i will never know about him, and i had a psychic tell me he is doing undercover stuff, but of course he wont admit it. im freaking out. What are the likely explanations?

BY THE WAY, MAYBE THE "GUARD" IS JUST A COVER UP THE MILITARY GIVES HIM?

CALRAISIN, SO THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS THE AIR FORCE GUARD? HE DOES "MEDICAL" SIDE, AND HE DID ACTUALLY LEAVE FOR 5 MONTHS TO GO TRAIN WHILE WE WERENT LIVING TOGETHER. IM SO CONFUSED :(

Answer 1

You shouldn't ask. If he is involved with the military and not telling you exactly what he does its because he can't. I wouldn't let it bug you. Lots of people in the service have to keep exactly what they do a secret for the protection of their loved one's.

Answer 2

Wow where to start with this one, there is no way on the earth that he is doing anything "top secret" with the military or any other government agency. I can tell you this with every bit of certainty because... well I just can. You would have known when he went through the process of applying for the program because you would have had to have a background check as well. You would have known when he went to the training for the job that is 5 months long, there again well I just know. And finally that is not a job that is a guard thing it is an active duty only thing or it is a civilian thing, and he would not be going to a regular job, he would be going to a specific job all the time you would not be moving around all the time. Honey the only danger you are in is the danger of being with a man that is always going to be lying to you and always going to be moving you around the country. You need to really look at what is going on and if this is the kind of life that you want for the rest of your life. You also need to think about the fact that if he is telling you that there are things you will never know about him just what that means. You need to be careful but take it from me he is not doing anything for the government, I really do know what I am talking about on that one. Good luck and be careful.

Answer 3

No he's a loser. He's told you stories to impress you because he's insecure & thinks he has to do something to hold onto you. Now he's built this web of lies & built up his self-esteme/persona around it. That means he has a fragile mental state that will come crashing down if & when he's forced to admit it's all BS. That can be a dangerous situation. Further, a relationship founded on lies will not last. So, you should just move on with your life.

If he's in the Guard he's assigned to one unit in one place & has to get permission to move 200 miles away. Special Forces doesn't get a cover, so this punk doesn't. Spies, special forces guy, whatever, they don't need covers. What they need is to just not talk about what they do to people that don't need to know. It's called personnel secuity, and considering people's families are at risk if the right information gets in the wrong hands, it's pretty well respected. The only "undercover" thing this guy is doing is hiding his own loser self from you. The fact that you'd even go to, much less believe, a psychic tells me a lot about why you'd hang around such a retard so long. Leave the guy & get yourself straight. Then call his commander & have a conversation about his claims.

Answer 4

Sounds to me like you are dealing with a bum. If he is hiding something than it would not have anything to do with the military. If for no other reason than it would be really hard for him to maintain a security clearance with that kind of job history.

And BTW - if you are in a significant long-term relationship with him and he actually was doing 'Top Secret' stuff, you would have had a background check done on yourself. (Which you would have known about because of all the paperwork you would have had to fill out.)

Answer 5

I think if it's actually a military secret you should be able to read about it in the NY Times shortly. Just kidding,Sorry to burst your bubble but psychic's are in the business of you coming back.If the psychic had said "no worries", you'd have no reason to see them again.I would think and hope you're both safe.

Answer 6

He may be working for the CIA in which case he will never be able to confide in you his every day duties. If you love him, then accept the fact that you will never know EVERYTHING about him, but otherwise, if you can not live withthe pressure, than maybe the relationship is too much for you to handle.

Answer 7

It really comes down to how much do you trust him. If he has classified information that's not like he's a jerky guy keeping secrets, he could go to jail for telling you and you might go to jail too. Again it comes down to trust, if you really trust him you have to trust that he would not put you in danger. If you can't really trust that then why even be with him?

Answer 8

well,,,on here,,,you more than likely will stick out like a sore thumb... When all the terrorists and middle easterners read this,,,,they're gonna want to be your friend...... I think this is a case sensitive matter and you should be careful who you speak with about this and know the sources of any and all advice.............

Answer 9

He is probably a CIA sleeper who will be called on to orchestrate another terrorist attack on the USA like the Twin Towers.

Answer 10

your bf is full of ****.

he told you that just to impress you.

no one in the gaurd knows ANY... and i mean ANY military secrets that are worth knowing.

maybe he is actually getting laid off? im not trying to make you feel bad just trying to confront you with reality.