My boyfriend was great, but I just wasnt feeling the connection anymore. I broke up wit him and I really like one of my guy friends, who may like me too. I am to shy to tell him, even though he likes me as well, I dont exactally know how to tell him. What should I do?!!!!
2006-07-18 09:40:38 · 8 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your doing the right thing. Moving on with your life, meeting new people and enjoying new experiences that are more you.
Nothing wrong with what your doing, at all.
Enjoy!
2006-07-18 09:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give yourself a few time to think again, is they are any way to make the connection with your boy friend....tell him your feelings.
may be he was thinking that he was doing grate with you...let him know that he will lose you if he still unable to make that connection.
if he fail then you can build new relationship with any one else and u will feel that u did the best with your boyfriend but he failed to keep you beside him.
2006-07-18 16:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by interaciraq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him, but do it in a casual way! Say something like "So when are me and you going to go to the movies?" Just try something like that and if he likes you he will take the bait! If you do it casually and he looks at you like your crazy then you can play it off as a joke!
2006-07-18 16:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by flutter_by_baby20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to suck it up and tell him how you feel and ask him if he's interested in being more than just friends. If you don't, you'll never know and you may regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-07-18 16:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by grizzly_r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CARE ENOUGH ABOUT HIM, BUT ARE WILLING TO RISK YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO BE WITH THIS BOY, THEN GO FOR IT. IF YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO LOOSE A POTENTIAL BEST FRIEND, I SUGGEST YOU CONTINUE TO STAY FRIENDS. I WENT OUT WITH MY GUY BEST FRIEND AND NOW HE'S IN LOVE WITH ME, AND I DO NT FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT HIM. I LOVE HIM AS A FRIEND, BUT NOTHING MORE. YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER THAT.
2006-07-18 16:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by MARIA G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what have you to loose?? If you don't tell him you will miss the chance.
2006-07-18 16:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by engineer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dudee, tell him. there is no time to spare.
2006-07-18 16:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with both of them.
2006-07-18 16:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋