is he using you/?

Question

Is he using you?

what if you love someone and they say they love you but you feel there drawing away from you and you want to leave but you dont know how to say it ,and if you do they'll try to get you to come back and you just come running bac like an idot,is he using you?I mean is he taking advantage of just pushing you to the side but he knows your always be there when he's ready to act like your in a relationship

Answer 1

he is SO using you!

Answer 2

A definate YES...I just got out of a relationship like that. I wanted it to be over and didn't know how to say it, and I just kept coming back time and time again. One day, he just stopped calling ME and there I was again trying to keep him because now he was pushing me away. I wanted him to leave, just not the way he did. And after 2 1/2 years together, he had to be using me because he stopped calling and has had no contact with me since and it has been over a month. You can't say you love someone and spend that much time together and cut them off cold turkey, it is inhumane. Yes, he is using you...he too will eventually find someone else to use and just move on to the next person. People like that have no consciencous. I do not understand it.

Answer 3

Its hard to say. We all have issues that make us do things. Bottom line is you two are not getting along. Its always a push-pull in the relationship, there is always drama, there is always pain and hurt. Its just not working out and for you to ask this question means you feel used. If you feel it, its probably true. Your not happy. Move on.

Answer 4

I think hes using u. If u feel him drawing away then u need to leave him and move on. It's obviously not a real luv!!! U don't need to come running back because theres someone beeter out there 4 u!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 5

No, I think he is simply taking what you are giving. You said yourself you are being an idiot about it. Until you choose to stop being an idiot he's going to keep taking, thats human nature. If there was a guy on the street handing out $100 bills everyday, wouldn't you walk by and happily accept one daily, would you be using him or would you say he's doing it to himself? Nothing is going to change in this situation until you change it for yourself. As long as you are putting up with it you really can't complain.

Answer 6

People use each other all the time. They will continue to
do so until using someone actually causes them a problem.

If you don't want to be used, you need to make the act
of him using you bad for him.

This usually means leaving him, but I'm sure you could
come up with other possibilities.

Does he have rabbits?

Answer 7

You make it sound like it is his fault. He is only doing what you are letting him get away with. Sure he's a pig, but you are letting it happen. Stop trying to change him, and change yourself, get out now and stay out. Find a man you won't let walk all over you.

Answer 8

Hi saw your question.
This is coming from some one who has been used like 5 times.

If he is using you,you should leave him,find a new man that loves you and won't use you.Do you like anyone else.Go after him you guys might be happy toghther.

Answer 9

Of course he's using you. You need to drop dat sucka. He treats yu like dat cuz you let him. He knows you out up with his b/s and dats why he treats you like dat.

Drop him before he hurts you some more.

Answer 10

He is using you and stop following for it because you think you aren't good enough for anyone else...please heed the advice of the wise and leave him alone...