I'm 13 and Live with my Father and my Step-Mother. I am not aloud to see or talk to my Real Mother unless Under Supervised Visitatation. Latlely I've been thinking of my Mom and want to talk to her. I have a counselor, but I feel unconfortable talking to her sometimes because she talks to my Step-mom too. I don't know what to do because I want to see my Mom but don't know who to go to. If I go to my Parents, they seem Angry and that makes me feel bad and makes me not wanna finish asking them. If I talk to my Counselor, I'm not sure if she'll do anything about it. (By the way: I don't usually want to see my Mom since I hate her newer Husband and she is just stupid. Not mental Retardation stupid. Just Stupid lol. Stupid decisions.) Thanks for your help. I appreciate it. And sorry If my Question is a little harder to understand.
2006-07-18 09:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If I want to write a letter, i have to give it to the counselor and I think she has to read it. Or she will.
2006-07-18 09:18:07 · update #1
Why don't you sit down and talk to you dad alone. This way your stepmom can't put her two cents in. Tell him how much you appriciate everything he has done for you, but that you have been really thinking about your mom. Tell him that you love him and your stepmother, but it is unfair to keep you away. Re-assure him that you wouldn't leave him, but that it is really something you need to do. Good Luck
2006-07-18 09:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you do. Write letter to you mom/email. Make phone calls. Ask her to come to see you. Well is her right, even is supervised visitation its doesnt mean you can talk privately isnt it? Be strong Girl, you have to accept what kind of life you have. If you think your mom is stupid on getting in relationship, that is bad. Give her at least reason, why? Be good. If they hurt you. Call 911
take care.
2006-07-18 16:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop3 it was easy to understand.. Well tell them how u feel and u might be 13 but u sure are able to make decisions on ur own.. Ur not a lil girl any more its hard to believe but u are growing up. N trust me im 16 and last time i remember i was 13 where did those years go i have no idea.................. LOL but just trust ur self and do what ur heart tells u to do.>....... okay sweetie good luck
2006-07-18 16:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by 3ly L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter to your mom. That way you can get everything out that you want to talk to her about.
After you are done writing either mail it to her, or read it back to yourself and make sure that you want to send it to her.
Good Luck!
2006-07-18 16:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to just your father and not the both of them.
2006-07-18 16:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad about the way you feel and see what he has to say....good luck
2006-07-18 16:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋