There's this guy who i sort of have feelings for...and i know he does...he did before..and now he says he doesnt..but deep down i know he does...how do i get him to admit that?
2006-07-18 08:57:58 · 15 answers · asked by r_thomas129 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT YOU REALLY HAVE TO DO IS ASK HIM QUESTIONS, THIS WILL DRAW THESE FEELINGS OUT OF HIM. IF HE DOES HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU THAN THAT'S FINE BUT IF HE DOSN'T THEN FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO DOES HAVE FEELING FOR YOU. THERE IS NO USE TRYING TO STICK AROUND IF HE DOSN'T. YOU COULD GET HURT IF YOU TRY TO PERSUE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS JUST NOT THERE.
2006-07-18 09:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Stasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys generally don't like to talk about their feelings all the much. The first thing you can do is open up to him, make him feel safe to share his feelings. Mostly he needs to know that if he admits that he has feelings for you, that you won't reject those feelings but you will embrace them. Us guys can be rather difficult to get through to when it comes to these things, so try and be somewhat direct. Let it be known that you have feelings for him and you're hoping he will share his. If he does end up admitting how he feels, that's wonderful, if after trying this he still keeps these feelings to himself, back off and just wait for his timing. You never necessarily know what is going on in someone's life any given day. But good luck!
2006-07-18 09:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force the issue. There is a reason he does not feel comfortable sharing this with you , so when the time is right, he shall. In the meanwhile you play it cool and let time take care of the rest.
2006-07-18 09:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do if you want something is to tell him how you feel. If you dont then you can wait and eventually he will either come to terms with you or move on.
2006-07-18 09:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can get him to admit it, the truth will always come out on it's own eventually.
2006-07-18 09:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont force him, if hes not ready to admit it, then maybe hes not sure, even though you think you are, the last thing you want to do is make a fool of yourself
2006-07-18 08:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't take the first step? If he does have feelings for you, I'm sure he will not say not to you.
2006-07-18 09:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy he does not well we are cold hearted assholes at times and don't care that is what is wrong with men
2006-07-18 09:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not something you get him to tell you you kind of want him to say it on his own and if he does usually he will say it on his own that's when it was worth waiting for
2006-07-18 09:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kay D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force. That crap is old and bad. We don't like to be force into stuff.
2006-07-18 09:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋