should i go out with him?

Question

i feel for a guy at a family reunion. the first day that we were ther we made out and on the last day we ahd sex, we also are 15. he is my aunts (married into my family) sisters husbands son from a previous marriage.
should i go out with him still?

he is funny and he is hot, we had sex and it was good, we stayed there for 5 days and he said he loved me and i love him, he is so nice

Answer 1

Why not? It's not incest or anything.

Answer 2

You did not say how long between the kissing and then the sexual contact. How long was this reunion? Did you now leave the impression with this young man that you are "easy" and each time you go out with him, will he expect you to submit? Doesn't sound to me as though this relationship was formed prior to you making some very bad choices. You also do not state if you have true feelings toward this person, if he is kind, funny, loving, etc. Next time take the time to slow down and enjoy bulding a friendship first. I truly feel you made a very poor choice!

Answer 3

that is really confusing by the way :)
personally, i would never date someone who could possibly be my cousin. Meeting at a family reunion kinda sets that tone. But anyway, i also wouldn't date someone who would make out with me on the spot, or have sex with me a few days after. That kind of says that he doesn't respect you enough for a real relationship. He only wants the physical. Avoid relationships like those. It only leads to trouble. You are only 15, you don't need that kind of drama.

Answer 4

As far as the family relationship goes that is not important. As for the whole we made out on the 1st day and had sex on the last day, We are 15 thing. That is where the problems come in. If you don't respect yourself do not get upset when others disrespect you as I am sure he will.

Answer 5

If you go to a family reunion to get a date... you might be a redneck. Sorry, had a Jeff Foxworthy moment. All joking aside, I had to think on this one. So, the aunt isn't a blood relative, her sister isn't even a relative, & the boy is no relation to the sister, to whom you are also no relation. Sounds as though you are free from screwing up your gene pool with this one, so that's a plus. I wouldn't recommend having sex at 15, but I know my recommendation ultimately doesn't mean squat, & you'll do what you want anyway. Therefore, all I ask is you please use protection so I don't have to support any more illegitimate children with my taxes. I haven't screwed up my life, so it does irk me to have to use my taxes to pay for the mistakes of other people who refuse to use condoms. Please don't become a tax burden to those of us who work. Thanks.

Answer 6

Yeah i guess it's okay, check the family tree a few times though to make sure.

And be really really sure about this. You might not want to tell you kids in the future that you met Daddy at the family reunion....isn't that one of those "you know you're a redneck jokes"

Answer 7

If you are worried about disturbing the gene pool, that won't happen. There is no scientific evidence to support it. Sex between a brother and sister is scientifically playing with fire, but other than that, there is no problem. I hope you're using contraceptives. There lots of other things to play with other than sex at your age.

Answer 8

if you want to date, then by all means, date. he techniquely isn't your relative, but if things start getting wierd, then get out of the relationship before it gets worse.

Answer 9

If he is a member of your family don't do it its grouse so stop doing it

Answer 10

as long as its legal go for it, but y are you having sex so young, not criticizing just curious

Answer 11

Um... if you think you should. It may be a bit awkward but give it a shot.