Im 17 and i like girls, i've had many girlfriends, but pictures of guy models with their shirts off i like. just the ones with muscle. I don't have muscle, so i dont know if i just want muscle so i like those pictures and i want to feel muacle on myself, or if im gay or what. i do like girls though, so i dont know? Help please, and tell me if your gay or not too, just so i know who its coming from.
2006-07-18 08:37:12 · 15 answers · asked by yo joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry so much about it.
We all look at pictures of people we want to be more like. Look at women magazines they are full of pictures of women with great make-up and pretty clothes it doesn't mean the women who read them are gay.
It really comes down to, do you want to sleep with men? do you want to make-out with men? do you want to date men? If the answer is no then you are not gay.
Even if you are bi or gay it's not the end of the world.
2006-07-18 08:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm straight, & right now, this is definitely sounding as though you could at least be leaning towards being gay or bisexual. I'd say if the pictures are giving you erections, you are having tendencies to be gay. If you're masturbating to them, I'd say it's more than tendencies. Personally, I can't understand the confusion, as it seems to me that before puberty, I didn't really think much about sex at all, & then puberty hit, & I haven't stopped chasing girls since. To me, a straight man doesn't enjoy looking at other men, & the thoughts of performing any sort of sex act with a man repulse him nearly to the point of nausea. As for the person who said "experiment", bad idea. There's an old saying that is very true, & goes something like this: "You can build a thousand bridges & suck one c0ck, & no one will remember you as a bridge builder". If you "experiment", you may not be able to live with yourself due to the shame & the guilt for what you have done. I've heard of plenty of people who "experimented", & ended up blowing their brains out with a 12-gauge. Once you cross that line, there's no going back, & you may regret it the rest of your life. I'd say stick with girls, & start working out so you can get some muscles of your own. Also, you might see about getting checked for a hormone imbalance. It might only take a blood test, & it could be you're low on testosterone. Hope this has helped you with your dilemma.
2006-07-18 15:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's more of an envy thing, like you said. You are basically wishing that you could look like this guy, not thinking about doing him. It's like when you see a guy with a monster manhood in a porn movie and wish that you could be that huge. Now, when you actually start thinking about doing sexual things with these guys like giving him oral sex you've got a problem. I don't think you're gay so don't confuse the hell out of yourself.
2006-07-18 15:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi...I think. You need to do some experimentation, I think. It will help you understand your sexuality better. Also, there really isn't a need for labels. People like what they like and, in my opinion, labels such as "gay" and "straight" have really ruined society's acceptance of sexuality and differences among people. Anyways, try some experimentation before you decide anything.
2006-07-18 15:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you fantasize about fu(king these guys or do you just fantasize about being these guys? It doesn't sound to me that you are gay but if you must be something, at the most you are is bi. But I think you will live. I dont think you are gay.
And no, I am not gay. I'm a laddie!
2006-07-18 15:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am straight but you may be bi sexual. If you feel physical attraction for those model muscular guys then you're probably bi-sexual. The only way to find out is if you try to be with a guy and see how you feel.
2006-07-18 15:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by El Luigy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it could just be the fact that u r envious of the models phisique. if u were jacking off to the pix then I would definatly say u r gay. the fact that ur questoning it may mean your bi-curious.
2006-07-18 23:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by chiki_bobiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur confused.. stop and think what goes through ur mind when you see these pics,, do you get turned on?? why are u seeing these pics?? whatever u are don't be afraid to let it out. don't be a victim of society, you don't have to live by so call " rules" if ur gay yell it out don't be ashamed.
2006-07-18 15:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just like the pics and get no physical arousal from it then you are not gay. you may just desire that look for yourself. just keep in mind that if you do get aroused by looking at them you may just be bi-sexual, like girls and guys. nothing wrong with it!
2006-07-18 16:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun it seems as though you are bi b/c you like both girls and guys.
2006-07-18 15:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Vampira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋