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I have been in a few relationships and this is all the woman has wanted. I am a cathloc so I said no and the break-up was only a few days away. I don't want to keep falling for girls who only want sex

2006-07-18 08:33:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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We ladies don't ONLY want sex. But we do like to know what we're working with so we can see if it's worth the long haul. A nice guy that can't rock the boat will end up with his heart broken in the long run. It's good to know up front to avoid wasting time..hers and yours. Do a peek -a -boo or a show- and- tell so she can know what she would get if she would wait awhile. It's Ok if she's your g-friend...I'm not saying go flash the world. You don't have to do the deed, but damn...be a little naughty! Trust me WE WANT TO KNOW that you're a gentleman that is a bad boy between the sheets. And if what she sees brings a smile to her face she will want to wait. I would.

It's a new day babe. People aren't marrying first and sexing later. That is harder and harder to find. But we can be patient if it's worth it. Look at it this way. If you marry a woman that you can't please, you open the door for major problems like cheating..divorce... I've heard it said that when sex is good it is only 10% of the focal point in the relationship. But when it's bad it becomes 90% of the focal point. I know this is true because I LIVED IT.

2006-07-18 08:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by cami 3 · 1 0

Try finding a girl in church.Check them out to make sure they have the same morals you were raised with. How old are you? Your avatar looks young. If you are saving your self for the right one that is commendable. Don't let these girls get you down when you find the one that has the same beliefs as you then you will know this is your true match.

2006-07-18 08:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0 0

im sry that this has happened to u...but dont worry not all girls are like that. u can usually tell by how the girl acts, treats u, and dresses. if she dresses like a ho she probubly is...if she just does the touchy feely stuff and not the other stuff...shes using u
just b careful and watch for the signs...find a nice girl to settle down with
good luck

2006-07-18 08:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0 0

That's how I feel about guys. Of course, most the guys I know don't want to deal with the whole dating part. Yeah, I really don't know how to help you on this one because if I did I'd give myself the same advise.

2006-07-18 08:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0 0

well if u feel that way, why don't u just go ahead for a catholic girl. she'll probably share the same thoughts as u. don't worry u'll find a right girl. one who will not want u just for sex. trust me, i'm like that

2006-07-18 08:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by dimples 2 · 0 0

I dont know what kind if girls you are dating sexy because real girls will tell you that they either want you for sex or for something superb special but other than that..it's weird! lol =-) Muahz and ciaos hottie

Angie

2006-07-18 08:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 2 · 0 0

Well you can tell if they ask for it or if they try to suduce you. I suggest you keep looking for that one and only girl!

2006-07-18 08:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0 0

just do it and fake that you want her for sex to if shes hot and then she may or may not leave you

2006-07-18 08:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by kourtney d 1 · 0 0

i don't know how u would tell. hey im a good christian girl. e-mail me at journalismbabe@yahoo.com if ya want

2006-07-18 08:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by journalismbabe10 1 · 0 0

Go for catholic girl!!! or try telling up front.

2006-07-18 08:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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