I have been in a few relationships and this is all the woman has wanted. I am a devote cathloc so I said no and the break-up was only a few days away. I don't want to keep falling for girls who only want sex
2006-07-18 08:33:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must not like being happy either.
2006-07-18 08:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you explaining to them why you're objecting to sex? Some girls may think that you don't want to because they're not attracted enough, so make sure you're clear on why you don't want to. If a woman doesn't communicate with you and doesn't want to do anything but have sex, then I don't know how much more obvious it can be that that's all she wants. Not every woman is like that though. Sooner or later you'll find someone like you, or at least someone who respects your beliefs. I wish you luck and I hope you find someone sooner rather than later. You seem like a very nice guy, and it's great that you can stand up for yourself in that area. Too many guys give into temptation.
2006-07-18 08:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I hate to break it to you, but women want the exact same thing that a man wants out of a relationship. Some only want sex, others want a long lasting relationship. Sounds like you are looking in the wrong places for relationships. I know from experience, that you should be open from the begining of a relationship and tell the other person exactly what you want out of the relationship. The key is communication!!
2006-07-18 08:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by latina21_01ucf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing. Sex is for marriage. It is not a toy for fun. It is for serious relationships and responsible relationships. Very happy to hear someone thinks the way I do. I am a christian also. I don't think women only want you for sex but they want to feel that down the line it will happen in the relationship. I know you will find the right person soon. Hang in there! God Bless.
2006-07-18 08:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kimgreeneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! you already have alot of answers but, I will still give it a shot. Majority of the time, its not that the women are just wanting sex, It's that we are now, unfortunately, part of a society that tells women that it is okay to be promiscuous. They are looking for someone to pay attention to them. And sometimes they think the only way to do that is to have sex. Sex should be a treasured thing and many people have lost sight of that. Next time you find a girl that you really like, and she seems to only want sex, just ask her " why is that so important?" "Why are you in such a hurry?" Tell her that you really like her and that you want to know everything about her. Flatter her, and take care of her, and trust me she will be willing to wait too. You seem like a really great guy. Keep it together and you will be fine.
2006-07-18 08:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by shannonhmt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are girls out there who don't even care about sex! You'll find one, some are just too afraid to say it because they think all guys are only interested in sex!
Maybe you should try going out with some of the girls in your church. There should be other devout Catholics there, who aren't looking for sex in a guy, just that special person who they can talk to, hang out with, and just have fun with!
Best wishes!
2006-07-18 08:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by BabeeOreo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness.....what a corrupted world we live in.
Well, observe how she behaves, how she dresses, how she carries herself, etc etc.
A woman who wears clothes that reveal ALOT of her skin, talk sort of "valley girl", and only talk about material things is a good guess for
a woman who only wants sex.
Have you ever tried meeting girls in church maybe? Or a nice cafe?
And stick to your morals, by the way, it shows you're a well-educated man. We don't meet alot of you these days!
2006-07-18 08:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if on ur first date she cant keep her hands away from u dont call her the next day. if u r a catholic go to church and find some one in ur religion who is not addicted to sex. if u go to bars and find women they normally want sex. any woman who is so drunk she cannot remeber her name will want sex. any way sex is natural thats y u have the confssion box.
2006-07-18 08:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty obvious when a girl just wants sex from you bro..... she would rather just go 2 your place everytime u hang out rather than goin 2 see a movie or out to dinner or spend time just walkin around the city and shop. its cool that your devoted enough that you pass the offers up, most guy just say **** it
2006-07-18 08:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself. There are some really nice girls out there who would love a guy like you! Just keep looking and don't give up!!
2006-07-18 08:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by tammette39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!!!! Thank heavens!! Finally a REAL man! Stick to your morals. You will find the right girl. And don't worry about the last one. You deserve better than that.
2006-07-18 08:35:48 · answer #11 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋