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There's this dude i know wh0 claims t0 be madly in l0ve with me. Anyway, i was flatered, but i'm just n0t interested in him, but i d0n't kn0w how to let him kn0w. Anyway, i sp0ke t0 him this 0ne time and i t0ld him that i w0uld call him back in tw0 weeks (i've been at my c0usin's h0use) but it's been ab0ut five weeks m0re 0r less and i still haven't called him back. As a matter 0f fact i d0n't plan 0n callin him back. He's always calling my friend and asking ab0ut me. I d0n't know what t0 d0.... (this b0y lives in the apartment infr0nt 0f mine, s0 i'm careful t0 av0id him when i g0 h0me....he 0nce came t0 my h0use while i was h0me, but i didn't answer the d00r because i knew it was him...)

2006-07-18 08:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You wrong you dead wrong. Why won't you talk to the dude? Thats why females like you always end up with the worst person in the world. A Damn shame. Tell him to stop with the madly in love with you thing, because y'all dont know each other like that. Take it slow. You should talk to the dude like a friend first. I dated a lot of girls that I wasn't interested in, I gave them a chance. I wasn't mean like what you doing. I would call them. They soon got a BIG EGO I then stop talking to them, but Karma came. And now they are suffering. You messed up now. You should've called that dude even if you wasn't interested in him. Its gonna be a shame, when that dude come up living large and doing good. He probably a REAL MAN. Y'all girls complain about can't finding a real man, but when one comes up you throw him under the bus and end up with the LOSER you thought was the best thing. Then he be with one of your friends living it up, treating her like a women should be treated. Then you be wanted to go with him but ITS TOO LATE. I don't know you but you got some maturing up to do for real. Because what you doing right now is not a grown azz woman thing to do. Back in my freshmen year at SC STATE(2001), there was a lot of mature girls here. They didn't care how you look or what. They will be cool with you and talk. Make sure to set you straight before you come with the bull$h!t like a woman should do. THey wasn't mean to nobody. They talk to dudes even though they was interested in being with that dude. YOu got girls like you now around here ain't being that type of woman. TOO PICKY and TOO NEGATIVE. God probably testing your behind. YOU FAIL. Now you are gonna end up with some retard who slaps you around, the way you like it. Disrespect you, the way you like it. YOU need to be a WOMAN.

2006-07-18 08:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

That's just bad karma. You might not like this kid, and you don't have to force yourself to, but the polite thing to do would be to tell him truthfully that you're just not interested in him in that way. I know it sucks being the bearer of bad news, but if you're truthful and polite, he can't ever claim you led him on or anything like that. How would you like it if some guy did that to you? You'd be one of those whiny little girls on here asking us questions about why he didn't call and all that. It takes a great deal of courage to do the right thing sometimes, but it builds character. Try it. He'll probably leave you alone once he knows you're not interested.

2006-07-18 15:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0 0

Just go out with him once and then tell him he's not your type. You both will feel better.


btw, You forgot two 0's in your fourth line down, how and to. Why do you do that?

2006-07-18 15:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by pack42586 3 · 0 0

I may have been able to ready completely through this if you used letters instead of numbers wherever an 'o' was supposed to be.

2006-07-18 15:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0 0

just tell him that u just want to be frends and get to know him some more u shoud go on a date with him and c wat hes like

2006-07-18 15:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

do you realy think someone cares? but thanks for the points

2006-07-18 15:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by citisat 3 · 0 0

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