To be honest...help train your man to not only be pleased, but on how to truly please you.
Guide him to slow down...we as guys get caught up in the adrenaline of pleasure and thus tend to go to fast.
Now all guys have their own key turn ons.
One key pitfall, is changing your mind. If you start down the road of sexual pleasure with some mood setting of foreplay, don't change your mind and suddenly say no. This is frustrating and tends to truly harm a relationship.
If the mood from you is NO...then make it a no at the start...NO TEASING!!!
On another note, some guys like to watch!!! Be provacative, even to the point of pleasuring yourself while he watches!!!
Also while you are in your act of Sexual pleasure...feel free to use very naughty words..."F@#K ME!!!" things of this nature...this is a major turn on!!!
Guys have low self esteem, so constantly praise him...even if he really sucks...no pun intended...teach him how to be better, but use positive feedback to get him there.
If you really want to do something wild...do something in public...you'ld be amazed at what hands can do under a table at a restaurant!!!
2006-07-18 08:40:02
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answered by warequalspeace 4
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To me that's something specific to the individual and you'd probably know better than anyone what your husband or significant other regards as important. Some men are pleased by just being left alone. Others it's sex. Some want to escape being criticized for something. Some may wish for more compliments or recognition for what they do. Me? My wife pleases me when she's 'there' and looking happy, because then I feel that maybe I'm to some degree instrumental in her happiness. That's all I need.
2006-07-18 15:37:44
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answered by nothing 6
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Being there for the good times and bad times.
2006-07-18 15:34:23
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answered by C-Low 2
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Have to test drive first to see the rough points.
2006-07-18 15:32:29
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answered by Anonymous
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try fun places, the bench in front of the police station is alot of fun good luck.
2006-07-18 15:34:56
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answered by citisat 3
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treat him speacial everyday.
2006-07-18 15:34:10
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answered by carl 4
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getting naked is always a good thing
2006-07-18 15:31:58
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answered by chalpin07 2
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just be hot that is all you need.
2006-07-18 16:18:47
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answered by mgt 2
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Ice is always good !!!!!!
2006-07-18 15:32:36
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answered by worm 2
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Ask him what he likes, and if you agreed you can please him
2006-07-18 15:35:37
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answered by salvatrucha 2
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