ok so this is kinda a follow up from my question yesterday. I went on a date with this girl last night to a baseball game, good food and good company. We talked alot and got along very well. I did everything i think. I didn't get a goodnight kiss, but i got a hug. How do i go about asking her out on a second date and how do i know if she is interested. Should i go for a kiss on the second date, if the opporunity is there?
2006-07-18 08:25:55 · 42 answers · asked by Fluv u long time....69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call her. Ask her out again. You'll just have to ask her the same way you asked her for the first date. You should probably start out something like "So do you have any plans tomorrow night?"
As far as kissing; For one thing it depends on what type of girl she is. I would just see how the night goes. You don't want to push her or she might think you're only in it for one thing. When the moment is right, you'll know... Just read her body language. Again, don't do it if it doesn't feel right, you don't want to freak her out or have a weird moment.
I would suggest slower steps like putting your arm around her if you go to the movies or offering her your arm while walking. If she shys away from that, then wait another date or two before kissing her. If she seems to enjoy having your arm around her than go for it.
There's nothing worse than a rotten kiss.
Go out and have fun!
2006-07-18 08:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely call her today and let her know that you had a great time, talk for a bit, etc. Ask her if she could go out again sometime this week for few drinks, dinner, something like that. You should see if you could kiss her throughout the date...if that doesn't happen then you should just let it go and if she goes for a hug again at the end of the night then end the date by saying something to the effect of call me sometime...and then leave it at that...if she doesn't call you then she really isn't interested and move on to someone else.
2006-07-18 08:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by 1n51ght 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like everything went well, and that maybe she just doesn't kiss on the first date or she's still trying to determine where things are going. Just call her and ask her if she'd like to go out again, and hopefully she says yes! (I'm rooting for you!) Don't force a kiss, because it may ruin the night. Instead, let the moment come to you. When you're looking into each other's eyes and you're really close, that's the moment.
2006-07-18 08:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT RUSH THE KISS....big mistake. . . She will like you waaaay more if you just wait it out. . . You'll know when she wants the kiss and then move in for the kill. Try out the kiss somewhere around the 3rd of 4th date...
From an expert. . .
1 more thing. . . never ASK for a kiss, only a wimp will do that and girls know it. When the time is right, you have to take the initiative to hold her and then kiss her.. Asking for a kiss always gets a NO.
2006-07-18 08:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by avp071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just call her and tell her you really had a great time and would love to take her out again. If she accepts, she's interested. If she doesn't, you'll have your answer. As for the kiss on the second date. If the opportunity presents itself, go for it. Not anything too intense though, unless she's mutually and willingly participating in said kiss, lol. No harm in asking for a second date. Maybe she's waiting and hoping you'll call. Good Luck.
2006-07-18 08:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send flowers with a note saying thank you for the great time, then wait untill you know she got the flowers then call her and ask her out for the second date, and yes if you get the chance go for a kiss but make it a nice one not one of those kiss and run things, and then if you want to see her again ask her right after you take her home if you can see her again, above all don't go lieing to your buddies that you guys are more than you are, the girl does not need to become known as the town whore.
2006-07-18 08:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like to play hard to get and some have a thing against kissing on the first date. Ask her out again, if she says no you'll know she's not interested...Her body language could give it away was she flirtatious, did she act like she wanted you to be interested in her? If not maybe she's just shy, I don't know her so I can't say but she probably wouldn't have gone out with you the first time if she wasn't interested.
2006-07-18 08:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a local swap meet or car show or event and ask her out.
Don't wait till the last minute,she may have plans.
As for the kiss,just say how about a kiss sweetheart,and see what happens.
This worked when I was young,things could not have changed that much over the years.
2006-07-18 08:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best lovers, are best friends first!!!
Try taking her out as a great friend first and keep it that way. If you are interested in more, then figure out how to "Court" her.
Don't just go on dates, find other things that you can do together...business networking, school study groups, church study groups, house work, yard work, gardening...be creative, find new things, but also find things that you could potentially do as a life-long couple.
In the end, if she is interested you will know.
Bottom line, don't rush the "Physical Contact (Kissing/Sex)" Enjoy your time together first...ultimately it will make your intimate time that much more enjoyable when it occurs.
2006-07-18 08:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you had a nice time and a good connection, then I think you should call her and if she says yes that might show the possibilty of interest. See how the second date goes and if all went well again, give her a peck on the cheek. It's sweet yet innocent and it's not throwing yourself out there with the possibility of rejection. Just wing it! -Good luck!!
2006-07-18 08:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋