Should i take my girlfriend back?

Question

I borke up with my girl a week ago and i never called her to break up with her i just stop talking to her, I finally decided to call her because i wanted some space to think things over. she always kept telling me that she wasnt the type going and hooking up after she breaks up with someone. well, i called her and i asked her that if she wasn't cheating on me that i would take her back and she was acting all weird and stuff and i said what are you dating someone else and she said yes, and i said well i never called you to break up and if you wanted to get on with your life you should of call me and letting me know what she was doing. The answer she gave was that she didnt want to be alone. she is going to call me today to see if she wants to come back with me. what should i do?

Answer 1

For your on sake let it go. She will continuously cheat on you and have excuses to explain why she did it. let it go early thats the only way. There are other women out there go get one who is faithful

Answer 2

You mess yourself man. I doubt if you gonna hear a yes tonight. Aight man, you so call break up with you girlfriend but didn't tell her, then you get mad because you finally want her back. Man you an dumby for real. You let your girl go, because you want to think things over. You need some space. Thats call breaking up. She has the right to act weird, look what you did. You called her and asked her if she wasn't cheating on you. LOL. OH MY GOODNESS. You need help. You must be a teenage or some kinda retarded for real. I hope you are thinking this through. Because this is REAL BAD on your part. This is a lesson to learn.

Answer 3

Girls never want to be alone. I'm going through a really tough break up. Maybe? But, no, don't take her back, if she has already started seeing someone else. Then how do you know she was really totally into you in the first place. The way I see it, is, if my boyfriend broke-up with me, i would be devastated, i would be calling him, making him know that I still wanted to be with him, not try and move on right away. But let her call you. Talk through things, and see where things go. But just be aware of what she is saying. Don't just listen, to listen, really listen to what she is saying and how she is saying, then you will know how she really feels. And Good Luck!! :)

Answer 4

Well the problems stems from you taking action to give her the impression you longer cared. Taking time away from someone without notice is emotional neglect. Perhaps she saw the writing on the wall and when you didn't contact her; she made means for herself. The fact that you never sat down with her to formerly breakup means nothing, but lack of respect. In any relationship its a two fold; give and take; and lots of compromising. She's weird acting because rather both of you know it; a bond has been servered to some degree. Your connection level is suffering. Perhaps you two should sit down and have a heart to heart conversation about your needs; and find out if both of you are ready to meet the mark. But, as once was told to me; remember why you wanted your space; and look into yourself to see if those needs have made/changed. In addition; try to see your girl through her eyes. Perhaps she needed to wash you out of her system; because the pain was too much to bare. If you really like, care or love her; you own yourself and her to work things out and find out where you stand with each other.

Answer 5

Wow, your double-standards are appalling. So you don't even have to call her to break up, you just stop talking to her. What a gutless wonder you must be. Yet you expect her to call you when she decides she's tired of your crap and moves on to someone who treats her decently. Wooo. If I were her, I'd knock the crap right out of you. I sincerely hope you're only about 12, because that's about where your maturity level is. leave the girl alone and let her get away from a loser like you.

Answer 6

YOUR AN IDIOT! you completly just turned everything around on your girlfriend. you cant just not talk to her for a week because you just suddenly decided you were going to break up with her and just not tell her. and your an asswhole because you just told her and i quote "i never called you to break up and if you wanted to get on with your life you should of call me and let me know" you cant tell her not to do something you just did. if i were a chick and i was her, i would slap the sh*it out of you and date this other guy. i would never do that to my girlfriend, i would come straight out and tell her that i want to break up, not just ignore her. how old are you anyways cause right now your acting like a 10 yr old.
however, she also shoulndt have gone and dated some other guy after only a week of no contact and if she really wanted to talk to you, she would have called.

Answer 7

Sounds like miscommunication to me. And she sounds a little insecure about being alone. If you're willing to not leave her then go back to her. Also make sure that you are clear when you want some space. though it looks like she moves quickly with no hesitation. Question I wonder is how much does she think of you to move on so quickly?

Answer 8

MOVE ON! She shouldn't take that long deciding if she wants to be with you or not. She's obviously moved on with her life and found someone new. Sure, it's possible she's with him because she didn't want to be alone because I used to be like that too. She's insecure, so you're better off without her anyways. Don't waste your time. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find someone better! =)

Answer 9

I guess you shouldn't have left her alone. Kick her *** to the curb and get a new girl. Next time be a man and break up with her instead of sitting around for a week figuring yourself out.

Answer 10

You people are idiots!! In your first line of this rant you say you broke up with her. Jsut because you mentally and not verbally tell her doesn't mean it didn't happen. She's free to date who she wishes. Who are you that she should sit by the phone and wait for you to make a move. Hopefully she won't come back until you've grown up. Retard.

Answer 11

the truth is should she bother to take you back. you're the one who decided to break up with her w/o her knowledge, w/o any warning. now, being that you broke up with her, that means she has the right to be with anyone she wants, and it wouldn't be considered cheating because you broke up with her any way. why should she call you and tell you, you didn't have the courtesy to call her. so the ball is really in her court, she did nothing wrong, you did your break up all wrong!