ok 4 all the boys out their i need advice im 13 and i really like this boy who is 14 and i tlk to him all the time. i dont know the signs when a guy likes a grl. he talks to me all the time and he flirts but then he can be kinda mean to me sometimes so guys please help me try to see if this guy likes me ???? thank you so much!!!!!!
2006-07-18 07:56:56 · 27 answers · asked by Kia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, it depends now, how mean he treats you, cuz if he treats you to bad den trust me... 4get him, but its still not right if he treats u mean AT ALL!! it just ain't right, i noe cuz im 13 also, and i noe girls don't like being treated like dat and i wouldn't treat a girl like that also, but idk, this your choice, cuz den either you'll regret it, or you;ll just break up wit him real soon, so... unless you like another guy or sumthing, but if u really like him, then give him a cjance, but if he ignores you or treats you different in front of his friends, den you can really just 4get about him
2006-07-18 08:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by mychiqui93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sons are 14 and 15 so I will try and be careful on giving you advice. After all, you will do what you will do, regardless of what any of us on this message board have to say.
Do you have a trusted adult that you can talk about this openly? A mom, an aunt, an older sister, grandma...someone from Church? I would even ask if you have any positive role model adult males that you could turn to?
I pray that you don't have adults who try to control you...rather I hope that you have adults who believe in you. Inside your heart you know what is right and wrong and what you should pursue. You may not realize it yet, but you will be 20 years old before you know it and you will be looking at the last 7 years of your life with satisfaction or regrets...this is the time to take the first step towards being the lady that you want to be.
Best wishes to you.
2006-07-18 08:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mean in a teasing sort of way, the probably he's trying to do it to flirt with you to show that he likes you (yes, it's silly, but some boys think it's the right thing to do -- usually they grow out of it). If he's just mean, then he's a mean guy, and yoiu should look for someone else.
If he's flirting with you and talking to you all the time, he's almost certainly interested, but hasn't yet figured out that you're definitely interested (at least he's not certain enough of it to havbe worked up his courage to do more). If you want to make this go further, you need to make some clear moves. Persoanlly I'd suggest telling him that you like him and kissing him: that's pretty clear.
2006-07-18 08:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cute he probably does like you but be smart and play the game of friends. Enjoy the friendship because most likely nothing will go sour with a friendship but a boyfriend can bring tears in a heart beat. Enjoy each others company. If he likes you he will let you know and if your talking to him all the time most likly he likes you. Boys rarely waste there time with girls at that age.
2006-07-18 08:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by SunshineSparkles1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he probably likes you, but is not sure if he wants the responsiblity that comes with likeing you, He is 14, that is not real young but he does not have the experince that comes with age. The kind of mean comes from the fact that he is not sure how to act around you. YOUR best bet would be to make him a friend and see what kind of guy he grows into.
2006-07-18 08:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being mean to you is just another way of flirting for a lot of guys. You could have figured that out on your own. If you are telling the truth and the whole truth, then he probably like you too. Mahalo.
2006-07-18 07:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Hunter S. Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i agree with the first guy. Did he ask u to go to the movies? What? Give some details I am 14 almost 15 if u need firther help email me at Hockeydude6@verizon.net
2006-07-18 07:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you, he is jus trying you, but if he talks flirts and he sometimes acts a little mean, he definitely likes you, he may not see signs that you like him. let him know that you are sort of feeling him, see what he says
2006-07-18 07:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is the best sign, he likes you no doubt. ask him on a group date get with your friends-boys included- and go do something. boys are mean so ignore that or get him back
2006-07-18 07:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by staylowsaylo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you out, that means he likes you. Anything else is just a waste of time. Don't worry about it until he asks you out because he can like you all he wants, but if he does nothing, it's all pointless.
2006-07-18 07:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋