Don't!!
Approach her like a gentleman. Tell her you find her attractive and would she mind giving you her phone number. Speak in english not in "cool talk" or "slang".
Be a first in this person's life to show her what a REAL man is all about. Don't come at her drooling and giving her the impression you want to get her in bed right away. Be a friend first, talk and listen.
On your first approach bring her a single flower (a rose, a lily, a tulip, even a big ole sunflower is romantic), those kinds of things makes a girl giggle. When you hand her the flower of YOUR choice, then tell her your interested in her.
Don't get too heavy with her initially, like: "i want you to have my baby." Okayyyyy!!! Don't call her EVERYDAY, don't be available to her EVERYDAY, don't be at her beck and call EVERYDAY. If she's interested enough then she should invest her time, emotions, sweet nothings into you as well.
Whatever you do...don't just sit there and do nothing. Even if it means she might say NO! At least you will be perfecting your game. Good Luck lil brotha'
Peace Out.
2006-07-18 08:06:43
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answered by blakelycollierbrown 4
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Why act like you're not interested? That's risking her not being interested in you anymore. When you act like you don't care, some girls take that as you really don't care. Some girls like to game of hard to get but my advice would be to let her know how you feel. Don't come on too intense telling her you're crazy about her but let her know you're interested. Ask her if she can see anything happening, and if she can then you work up from there. If she decides you're better off friends, there's not much you can do but respect her decision.
2006-07-18 15:00:51
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answered by youdontknowme 3
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"Not interested" would be too much the opposite extreme, then she'll think you're not interested. Just talk to her and if it shows that you really like her, that's okay. Anxious or desperate is more when you don't like yourself and you're fishing for any girl who would be willing to go out with you at all.
2006-07-18 15:02:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Pretend that she's just another girl. Like don't act overexcited when you see her & smile & then run up to her lool :P But when you see her approaching you, maybe you could take a deep breathe when you see her & then in your head count. Then when she's close enough (& not 2 blocks away lol), you can pretend she's just some girl you don't know. Don't smile @ her but ask her everyday things. Hope this helps... Good luck :)
2006-07-18 15:02:40
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answered by Anonymous
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appearing not interested is the worst thing you can do
she might just like you too, and when you appear not to be interested then she might just move on, and figure "hey, if he doesn't like me, why waste my time?"
you should let her know that you like her, and you can do this without appearing anxious or desperate
trust me, you'll be happy that you were honest in the long run, instead of playing silly mind games
2006-07-18 15:00:11
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answered by BabeeOreo 3
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Honesty is the best policy!! Women love to be flattered...Give her subtle hints, you don't have to be "stalker" type...Just be honest with your feelings, for all you know maybe she is crazy for you...As long as you don't play mind games you're good to go...If she's interested in you and you play like you're not interested in her, it will only steer her away and she'll seek someone who does appear to be interested in her...
2006-07-18 15:02:47
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answered by Monica S 1
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Why act like youre not interested, youll probably make her think you really dont like her and then your chances will be ruined. Just be up front, if she doesnt seem interested youll be saving yourself alot of effort.
2006-07-18 15:08:45
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answered by A. Grigs 3
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Don't because she will just start dating someone else. Act like you like her unless she doesn't seem to like you. Try to find more ways to move in. It never works to act uninterested. She might be trying to figure out if you like her too.
2006-07-18 14:59:43
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answered by Mama R 5
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show her some attention, but go over board and start telling her all that love stuff right away, just ask her to go places that everyone goes to, nothing super nice to start, working slowly, increase the number of times you ask her to do things and make it a better place each time.
2006-07-18 15:01:18
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answered by citisat 3
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Why would you want to appear not interested. But if you want, then act like she's a nobody. But still talk to her. If it was me I would flirt but slighly.
2006-07-18 15:01:06
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answered by Yellow :) 3
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