Dated her for nine months moved away its been 3 years ..(she was my first and I wa s her first).then I went back to LA where I used to live and where she was.. to find out that I had been waiting for her for 3 years for nothing ..she lost hop in us where as I didnt. she doesn;t love me and she says were over ..along time ago ...the pain is eating through me please help.
2006-07-18 07:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by Nojan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so ****** up...I waited for her ... she didnt ...she the opposite person right now but her soul was different ...you guys are really great thank you so much ..
2006-07-18 08:09:09 · update #1
i mean how pathetic is it when you hear from the actual person you were with for her to telll you its time to move on and enjoy life...I used to belive in my heart that life ias not enjoyable without her in it....Now it hard for me to trust other wise..
2006-07-18 08:10:56 · update #2
I forgot love I dont think I believe in it any more or Trust Or God sometimes OPr Friendship...why???
2006-07-18 08:11:41 · update #3
she drills holes in my heart with evry action she take sshe steals the life out f me and I dont know what Im doing when I go to her...
2006-07-18 08:12:38 · update #4
I PRAY TO GOD SO BAD BUT I FEEL HE DOESNT HEAR ME BACAUSE HE DOESNT DO ANY THING I THink HE LIKE ME IN PAIN
2006-07-18 08:30:15 · update #5
im 33 and i still carry around feelings for my" first love".. that is something that will never completely go away.. and i mean ever.... im serious. you will eventully find some-one else and you will still find yourself wondering how that other person is every now and then....thats normal... life goes on but memorys are forever! good luck.
2006-07-18 07:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well juss bounce back and get another girl make sure she's prettier and smarter than her and then bring her around her...introduce them and then make out with her in front of her and make her jealous and make her want u back like crtazy and if u dont like the new girl then find someone that u could pay to do all that even if u dont mean it and make the new girl say things that would get her jealous and make her want u back...
Good Luck
2006-07-18 14:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok go out to clubs/bars/parties and get girls numbers..... doesnt mean u have to call and sleep with them but it shows that there other girls out there that are possibilities for either a physical relationship or a serious one..... this girl obviously moved on and so should u.... so get out there. I got over my g/f of a year that way in 2 months it was liberating.
2006-07-18 14:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are describing is one pain that can really hurt. At times this pain feels like some one have injected you with acid and it just burns through your entire body.
Time is a great healer as well as trying your best to avoid going places were you two had a romantic time together, until you have gotten over her.
Prayer helps as well to ask God for his help in dealing with your lost. Right now you are in pain and at times it seems like the emotional walls are caving in on you. A divorce friend of mine told me this when i was in a similar situation like yours.
She told me that people come into our lives and we don't know the reason why at the time, which is for us to gain ineptitude from having them in our lives and then they leave. It is God's way of sending them into our lives for experience and then taking them away. From the time she told me this it has helped me out. As i have used my experience of having her in my life to meet some one better.
So right now i avoid certain women that have a similar or identical trait as my ex and it has helped a lot.
The road to recovery is not going to be an easy road for you and if you are lucky to have genuine friends that you can confine in telling them of your pain, is a good remedy as well for you.
I know from personal ineptitude it is not going to be an easy road at all. It will require great power from within to pull your self together.
I hope what i wrote help you out as i answered you question to the best of my ability base on what you wrote .
2006-07-18 15:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
thats is very nice of you to do. But most of them time...the guy is more patient than the girl. Girls are very complicated. Whta you need to do is look on the bright side. Theres a better girl out there for u...and if this one was amazing...imagine the "one"? she is gonna be fantastic!
2006-07-18 14:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your burdens on the altar. And let God handle it.
2006-07-18 14:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Legalia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well....you could try to get her back....or get a new girl...
2006-07-18 14:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by jordan8_26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋