i'm jail bait but all the guys that like me are in their 20's-30's and they are all creepy!!! why do they like me? i don't even think i'm that attractive!
2006-07-18 07:45:44 · 25 answers · asked by jazzygirl_519 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you dressing like a slut?
2006-07-18 07:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's because they are creepy old guys. Creepy old guys are attracted to everyone. That's when you scream, "Get away from me you creepy old guy," and run away. I'm just joking although I kind of did something like that once. I didn't realize the car window was down. However, it's funny and then you have creepy old guy stories.
2006-07-18 14:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to bust your bubble, but it is not you the person they are attracted to.
Although I am sure you are an attractive person...saddly many men, including myself get side tracked by this thing called Sexual Energy and we lose focus on be a person of Character and Integrity.
It's funny, my wife once compared a man's desire for Sex with that of a woman wanting an eclair or some chocolate. I don't know how true that coralation is, but I know that it helped us as we have learned to communicate.
I also try to compare a mans compulsion with Sex as that story from the movie "A Beautiful Mind" with Russel Crowe. I see Unhealthy Sex, Pornography, Fantasy or any other deviant form of sexuality (Gay, beastiality, etc...) as that of those voices and people that Russel Crowe's character was seeing. By the end of the movie, those imaginary people were still there, but he made a conscious choice to ignore them and move on with life.
We as men, must each individually choose to treat Unhealhty desires as what they are and ignore them. Feed the healthy side of us, while we starve the "CREEPY" side of our being.
I pray that you will find that one true love that is meant for you and that others will be respectful and simply be a friend for the stage of life you are at.
2006-07-18 14:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey!
20 and 30 year old men aren't creepy old men but they ARE too old for you! I can't even attract the 50 and 60 year old men HA! HA! Enjoy being young and absolutely ignore the guys who are after young girls. I know you hear about them on the news. Stay Smart!
2006-07-18 14:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you're not saying all 20-30 year old guys are creepy...or that those guys are OLD, either.
2006-07-18 14:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem,...i work in a retail place and this creepy guy keeping coming to this store and ask a mumble question all of the time
this guy ask me for my # without his name......i was like no way
some creepy men do likes girls with beautiful hair, body, or eye..
2006-07-18 14:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by DivaStar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of clothes do you wear? How do you carry yourself? Try to dress your age and carry yourself with confidence. Do you have low self-esteem. Dirty guys look for girls with low self-esteem to prey on. You probably are also a lot better looking than you think. Did you develop early? (don't answer this, I just asked for you to reflect upon it) They are not looking to be your boyfriend they want to get into your pants. Stay away from them.
2006-07-18 14:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sara B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What they like about you is that you're young and vulnerable. Stay away from them (but you knew that). If they try to cross the line with you, run, and tell the police, and tell your parents.
Is it possible that you're dressing too sexily, or that your T-shirts are too tight? I'm not blaming you, but if you, say, wear your clothes a size bigger, that might help.
Talk this over with your mother or with a woman you can trust.
2006-07-18 14:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is both sad and pathetic that you lump everybody together that are older than 20 to be old
i hope, when you are 40, you look back on this and decide that you are still young and go out and get a weird piercing and/or a huge tattoo
2006-07-18 14:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like that because they like to take advantage of younger girls because they are more vulnerable and easier to play head games with. Especially if you have a low self esteem. They're dirty horny perverts that are willing to poke any hole they can find. Stay away from them. Stay safe!
2006-07-18 14:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reask this question when a guy that is 50 or older starts hitting on you. They probably just dont know how old you are. You might look more mature. I looked way older when I was younger. Quit being conceited.
2006-07-18 14:52:12 · answer #11 · answered by summer_ella_06 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋