My brother is 10 and I'm 15. Everytime after I take a shower he spies on me from under the door crack. it's just enough for him to see up to my shoulders.. this embarrasses me very much, but I don't know how to tell him to stop. He doesn't know that I know about it... what should I do?
2006-07-18 07:43:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unfortunately, it is normal. He is starting puberty and is curious. However, he is turning in the wrong direction. You will have to lock the doors and put towels under the crack to keep this from happening. Say something to him or your parents and try to not embarass him too much. It could scar him. He needs to learn that peeping is wrong, especially on his sister, and why.
2006-07-18 07:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My little brother used to spy on me when I was a teenager, it drove me crazy!!! He was 3 years younger than me. I used to hate it so much and I called him out on it every time and used to get so mad at him even kicked his butt for it but I know that was wrong now. Try blocking his view by stuffing something like a towel under the door before you take a shower. He probably spies on you in other places too, look for vents and stuff. Don't take any crap from him, your older than him and bigger, scare him.
2006-07-18 07:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nicely, 10 is by some potential the age whilst boys or some females start to enhance up and comprehend many ameliorations in existence or themselves..i'm a woman who's now 14 and that i began turning out to be somewhat moody in approximately age 10-11. i could no longer stand everyone, and that i presumed i did no longer want everyone's help on something. Your brother seems to be doing the comparable element, he's somewhat perplexed concerning to the replaced in his existence, and likewise at college and in all possibility is observing the lads that are older then him and attempting to be the comparable as them, in a million be conscious he's going to puberty. wish I helped! :)
2016-11-02 07:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal but he needs to knock it off. If he is doing it every time you shower then he has passed the curious phase and moved onto a pervert compulsive phase.
Tho I am curious at to why you are still letting it go on? Ever think to put a towel in front of the crack? Spray something in his eyes? Throw the door open and scare the crap outta him.
2006-07-18 07:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by gnomes31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for every guy. I started masturbating when I was 5. Believe it or not, but guys get horny looking at naked girls no matter how old the guy is.
It's not just curiousity. It's mainly hormones. I know it sounds gross, but your brother most likely has the hots for you.
Make sure to check for spy cameras in the bathroom when he gets a bit older and more technology-oriented.
2006-07-18 07:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just curiosity, but that doesn't make it right. Next time he does it, make sure to catch him in the act. If he knows that you know about it, he'll probably get embarrassed and won't do it anymore. And cover up the door crack when you change.
2006-07-18 07:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Supernan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Altough this is normal, it is embarrassing. He he doesn't know you know, so just stick a towel in front of the door where he can't get it out of the way and where you feel safe. It's your house too, you deserve a little privacy.
2006-07-18 08:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I use to spy on my brother while he was taking a dump, and then while he was pooping, I would bang on the window and just start laughing really really hard. After he flushed, he would chase me down, but he would never catch me. And since he smoke pot quite a bit, his attention span was not very long.
2006-07-18 07:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that. But u know im 15 and he is 10 right. Well ask him y does he look at u when u r in the bathroom. Ask if he wants a girlfriend if he says yes tell him to look at her because she might like it and give u a kiss then he might get caught then he fell stupid. ut thats my stupid idea just talk to me ill give u somemore ideas
2006-07-18 07:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Chad Davenport 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just curious but regardless, he shouldn't be checking out his own sister. Go tell your parents immediately. Tell them exactly what you told us here and that should most likely put a stop to it. Good luck!
2006-07-18 07:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋