2006-07-18 07:25:48 · 24 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I truly needed help I would be grateful if there are not indications of self gain on his part I would adopt him but if he did it to show how smart he can be I would still thank him but go to the corner and throw up.
2006-07-19 09:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it would depend on the circumstances. There really aren't many people out there that will help if they see you that you need help (having recently had to push my car out of an intersection by myself with perfectly capable people WATCHING me). There would be a part of me wondering if there was some ulterior motive at hand. It would also depend on how the guy behaved.
For example, if I were changing a tire, tuning up my car, or performing some other kind of inspection of the engine and fluids, and a guy asked if I needed help and proceeded to help me or find help if necessary, then I would be very grateful and impressed. There are a lot of guys out there that would be jerks about it and become very irritated about the fact that a WOMAN knows about cars or was even attempting to fix something herself.
I guess it is all about manners and how we were all raised.
2006-07-18 07:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by sunflower1237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very independent woman, so I don't like help unless I ask for it. But some women are different. I've always dated lazy men, and it's a miracle if they ever step in to help me out with anything, so I just quit expecting them to help. I guess it depends on the lady.
2006-07-18 07:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you helping her out or wanting to help her out.
Some women are users. So I would be watching myself really closely.
Maybe do something without her knowing it was you so she doesn't feel obligated.
How long into the relationship are you????
2006-07-18 07:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on the woman. If she is a user or a genuine person really in need of help. If she is real and decent she would very much appreciate a friend who is there when needed.
2006-07-18 07:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually flattered... It's nice 2 know ur still 1 of the very last gentlemen in the world...
2006-07-18 07:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by XsXs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They fell happy and more close to the guy who helped them and feel a connection to the guy
2006-07-18 07:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to be helped by a guy but not so you feel stupid
2006-07-18 10:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that there is 1 decent guy left in the world
2006-07-18 07:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kim P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still there are guys who help without looking for any other thing
2006-07-18 07:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by somu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋