I have dated this guy off an on for 7 years.. We got Pregnant. I wanted to have the baby but he didn't, I am so broken hearted.. He doesn't seem that it bothers him in the least. I know I should just move on, obviously he is not the right man, or I won't have done this.. I just don't understand how he can be so cold about the whole thing. It's like it was nothing.. Do you really think he feels that way??
2006-07-18 07:14:45 · 5 answers · asked by dasiy1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sadly, he probably does. He may or may not have regrets about it later, when he's old and childless.
2006-07-18 07:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably scared, and yes I do think guys mourn over an abortion eventually. I know they do I have met them. Look chances are that if you have this abortion your relationship will be over. Those are the facts, it usually happens that way. Statistics give you a year at the most after an abortion. Maybe once he holds hi baby, he will realize what could have happened. It is so hard, and I will be praying for you, and for him.
2006-07-24 12:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by ingamit2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do some don't. Being cold may be his way to cope with the loss, but it also may not effect him. Men often don't get to bond with a child until after they are born.
2006-07-18 07:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, why are they willing to pay for it now and not later.Good for creating not maintaining
2006-07-18 07:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-18 07:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋