let just say I've been given the oppurtunity to travel a lot, and everytime im out of the country.. I feel adventurous and romantic so i end up going out with other girls in each of this countries I visit. I do have a GIRLFRIEND back at home........ I just cant help it......... I love the feeling of having a blooming relationship in a different country.... sigh....
2006-07-18 07:10:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhm, that's called cheating & being a manwhore to be honest. Why have a girlfriend when all you do is cheat on her? Yes it is very selfish. It seems you're just keeping her around so there's always someone to come back too. Grow up & break up with her & spare her anymore of the heartbreak called cheating. If you want to travel & date around, do it. But why try to start anything serious when you'll never see them again? You're using it all as an ego trip, it's immature & disrespectful.
Grow up a little bit more.
2006-07-18 07:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Too bad i dont know ur girlfriend. I'd have told her everything. You really are more than a selfish bastard. I dont ever want to meet u.
I think you dont love her. The best thing you can do is break up with her. It will do u both a lot of good.
2006-07-18 14:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by lillynx2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ready to have a serious relationship. Yes you are selfish. If one of those 'blooming relationships' led to you getting an STD you would deserve it. Your girlfriend wouldn't. You are not adventurous or romantic, you are a horny little man who can't keep it in his pants and tries to justify having seedy one night stands.
2006-07-18 14:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by bertha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you're selfish, but more so you are immoral. Is it OK for your girlfriend to have relationships with other guys??? If so then I think you both need to get on with your separate lives.
If your answer is no that she can't see other men then you are a hypocrite. I hope she throws you out like yesterdays news!
2006-07-18 14:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought how you'd feel if you found out your girlfriend counts on you going out of town so she can have her own flings? How would it make you feel? Would you like wondering who she maybe with? If she's falling in love with some one else? If you can answer all those questions with an honest yes,then I guess you will justify what your doing that way,but if you answer any of them no,then stop what your doing & be faithful,it won't kill you I promise,or ask her to go with you sometimes,that can be exciting too.
2006-07-18 14:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by fairy53042000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may ask this Que to yourself, just put an eg., ur gf has given opportunity to travel a lot, ........................................she loves the feeling of having a blooming relationship in a different country...
If u ans OK then it's totally OK but please don't bring STD not to be a very selfish bastard...
2006-07-18 14:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by PP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you are Bc you prob got a really good gf "Back Home" and you are hurting her even though she doesn't know But Why don't you take your gf with you on These "trips" an maybe you will feel diff or whatever but you must not luv her very much to do this to her..
2006-07-18 14:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by kayla h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u keep the girl hanging at home, but expect her to stay committed to u, yes it is selfish. if you know yourself that u cannot stay committed, give her the respect she deserves to let her go and find someone who CAN stay committed to her. i think the one who makes you feel that no one else compares to what you have w/ her, then and only then will u stop these feelings of romance and fantasty because you CHOOSE to be committed.
2006-07-18 14:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask...you already know.
You like the 'thrill of the chase'.
I don't think you're ready for the commmittment that having a 'steady' entails...so do the right thing..be fair to her and cut her loose.
2006-07-18 14:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you like your girl doing this ? whatever your answer is, is the answer i want to give.. don't mix up things. either choose your girl over your flings or the flings above the girl. don't try and travel in two boats at the same time. hope you get my point. best of luck. tk cr. :)
2006-07-18 14:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by white rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋