Help, I think I really really love my boyfriend....
2006-07-18 07:07:46 · 14 answers · asked by by_request2000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if all you ever do is think about them, talk about them constantly & think if they leave you, you'll "die" that is obession.
Thinking of them when something reminds you of them, & knowing you could live well without them but you'd prefer not too, is love.
2006-07-18 07:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 now but i had the same problem when i was 18. I felt i was totally in love with this guy but infact i was obssesed. these are some questions that could help you tell the difference. Have other people seen him and pointed out bad traits but u completely ignore it? When your without him, do u think of him being there, like what he would say, what his reactions might be? Do you stare at his picture more than 3 times a day? Do you like him so much mostly because of the way he looks and physically reacts to things? Do u watch him for a long time when he's not looking at u? When u talk to him. Do you later remember word for word what he said and how he said it? Hypothetically if u had the power to be invisibe would you spend ur time watching him? IF YOU ANSWERED MOST OF THESE QUESTION.....YES, YOU ARE OBSSESED!!!!
2006-07-18 14:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by one_and_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! thats a good question ... Never thought of that .. even i am with my fiance for 4 years .. I LOVE HIM MADLY but never thought of obessession .. Well it depends on what kind of relationship u are in with him .. if ur boyfriend is not fleeing away from you or needs break from you that u have been bothering him too much .. it may be obessession.. but if he accepts ur love and wanted to be with you all the times, then its a LOVE.. my guess!
2006-07-18 14:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is the sort of emotion that will let you walk away if that's the only option. If they want you to leave, you will. You might fight it at first, cry and feel like your world was coming appart, but you'll go if that's what they need you to do. Love is about the other person and what they need. Love is selfless.
Obesession is about yourself. If the other person asked you to walk away, you wouldn't. Obesession is selfish
2006-07-18 14:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone is wanting to live with them in your life. Obsession is when you think you can't live without them.
2006-07-18 14:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is an obsession, it just seems like a bad obsession when the one you love doesn't love you back
2006-07-18 14:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I proved that I loved someone to myself was to let him go when he wanted to. I think that is real love, when you love someone so much, you want them to be happy. Regardless if it is with you or not. Yes, it hurt like hell - still does sometimes - but...I know how I felt.
2006-07-18 14:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, why do I love this person? If you come up with an answer - it's obsession.
2006-07-18 14:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kristin G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving someone is sleeping in the wet spot , obession thats easy thats wen all u wanan do is bonk and then leave em before they wake up or is that me doing a one nite stand im getting confused now
2006-07-18 14:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving some one is that you really feel something for that person. Obsesion is when you just think you can not live with that person.
2006-07-18 14:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have sex with him and that is it then you have an obsession...if you love him he could be the ugliest guy in the world and you wouldnt care
2006-07-18 14:14:46 · answer #11 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋