My boyfriend just dumped me for a black girl. He said that he always liked black girls, but was only with me to make his parents happy. But, he said that he didn't care what they thought anymore, and he was going to do what he wanted. Okay, whatever, I'm still bitter because we were together for two years, and he shouldn't have just been using me to make his parent's happy when he could've just followed his heart the first time. I'm not racist or anything; I've had plenty of Black guys approach me (I was with todd at the time, so i couldn't take them up on any of their offers), and I don't think there's anything wrong with dating interracially. But, do white guys prefer black girls more than whites, but just won't admit it because they're afraid of what people might say? Let me know what you think!
2006-07-18 07:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Sharlize De La Croix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes,he was wrong to have used you just to make his parents happy.He should have either went with what he felt in the the first place or he should have just told you in the first place his situation and how he felt and kept you as a friend instead of letting things get serious for 2 years and then riping your heart out.This shows that he was only in it to take care of himself.I say forget him.You deserve better and will find better.You are better off not having him if he is only thinking of himself.Now for the other part of your question.
No,not all guys prefer black girls over white girls.I am not a racist and will not put down someone based on race.I prefer white girls myself but only because I am white and do not want my children to suffer any more than they have to.With the way alot of people think in these days,it is hard for blacks.There are alot of racists out there.I beleive there are alot of white that are attracted to blacks and vise versa but are affraid of what others may think.The society nowdays will put down a child that has parents from 2 different races.No I do not feel it is fair but it is out of my control.I think the choice is bases solely on the individual as to who or what race they are attracted to.I also feel that alot of people are not actually attracted to other races but go that route to get even with others.An example of this would be a white guy going out with a black girl because he thinks his parents would not like it and he wants to make them mad.
Sorry if I have said anything here to offend anyone of any race.
I am not a racist.I am white and have a few best friends that are black and have gone out of my way to help them and had them to do the same for me.
2006-07-18 07:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 18⤊ 2⤋
I don't think white guys prefer black girls any more than they prefer white girls. If they do, they're more discreet about it.
Anyway, people should just date who they want to regardless of race, this world we be a much happier and less confusing place if they did.
Don't be bitter about your other relationship for too long, because I'm sure you'll find a guy who likes you way more than that other guy did!
best wishes!
2006-07-18 14:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by BabeeOreo 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I'm a white guy, the Italian type, and I like all the woman in the world, all of you are so hot, white (reds, blondes, brunettes, etc), black, Asian, girls from the moon, mars, whatever. Id like to have time in this life to make love with all of you.
Love ya!
2006-07-18 14:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ciccio 3 · 15⤊ 1⤋
Only if I am in the mood for some sweet chocolate. Or maybe some hot chocolate during the winter (with marshmallows). I don't see how color, creed or race has anything to do with his choice. His parents were probably racist and so he was afraid to tell them how he felt. Eventually, he grabbed his crotch and said to hell with them, I want whoever I want.
2006-07-18 14:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Master Kenobi 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Well, Im white and I like black guys more than whites. Im not racist or anything but I just find them more attractive. Maybe Your ex-boyfriend likes blacks more than whites cuz he fiunds them more attractive. Ask him.
2006-07-18 14:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
Black women are superior to white women. They are better in bed by far, they are physically stronger and healthier, and they tend to be more intelligent than the average white woman.
White women tend to only worry about their looks. Take those away and you have nothing... while a Black woman has looks plus everything else!
2006-07-18 14:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 6⤋
Na, white chicks are always better.
2006-07-18 14:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by smart_plus_polite 1 · 3⤊ 15⤋