my x and i broke up 2 months ago but he still calls me and has me over...his friend told me he has a gf and i know its true but he lies to me telling me they're just friends..whats his deal why wont he be honest?
2006-07-18 06:57:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either he thinks it may hurt u to tell u the truth...or he still thinks theres a future between you to other then being' friends' and doenst want u out of his life... best thing to do is tell him straight up what u want
2006-07-18 07:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by josh m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys want to "have their cake & eat it too". When my ex, Mr. Pathetic, kept calling me and asking me to dinner, I'd just tell him I was busy, until he finally got the hint that when it's over, it's over. He said, "you were never going to accept my invitation, were you?" It was difficult, believe me, but I said, "No, this is what you want and you can't have it both ways." He was snivveling like an idiot and begged me to think about it..............which I did......and still didn't go back. I kept thinking of all his bad traits (plenty) and stayed strong. GUESS WHAT??? I later met the love of my life and Mr. Pathetic is still alone..............boo hoo.......
2006-07-18 07:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋