My girlfriend diceded to switch jobs from a gas station attendent, to a Wal-Mart unloader (throwing boxes all day) I told her that even though it pays better that she will not like the job. That was 3 months ago and now she refuses to go to work, she finds some reason. I wouldn't mind but were both into a 1 year lease in this apartment . Last night I asked her if we could be more like roommates then lovers and make up an agreement to split the bills (rent, phone, and comsumers energy) and sign it. Then I wouldn't have to worry about want she is doing and vis versa. We really moved the relationship REALLY!! fast. She got really really got mad. She tells me that I am her mate and she wants to be with me for life, like all the time. Was that a bad thing to ask her to be roommates instead of lovers?
2006-07-18 06:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by Bit m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably could have phrased it better- saying you'd rather be roommates than lovers implies that you "want to be just friends"... in other words, you're breaking up with her. Maybe explain to her that you don't want to break up, you'd just feel more comfortable if the bills were split in half so nobody had to worry about them getting paid.
2006-07-18 06:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You originally agreed to move in together as lovers and now you just want to be roommates? That's asking alot of her! She should move out.
2006-07-18 13:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your landlord, see if you can work something out With him, see's probly not gunna like the fact that you broke up with her, but she still has to live with you.
2006-07-18 13:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is what you were feeling and stand by your statement. She'll get the hint eventually as long as you stand by it and don't buckle
2006-07-18 13:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋