I have been in love with a girl since childhood. We both love each other. Recently a neighbour wanted to marry her and she turned him down. Then he raped her. I gave her my full support despite she constantly telling me she has becoming feelingless. She doesn't feel anything for me. She even told me she liked it when he was touching her despite she refused it initially. After some days she learnt that she was pregnant and she became emotional for the child and wanted to marry the rapist. Her family took back the police case. She started dating him. During that period she hurt me in the worst ways going to the extent of telling me that she was not raped and i must leave her. But then she aborted the child and returned to me.What should i do?I feel terrible thinking how badly did she hurt me and she forgave the rapist and even dated him for a period of time.Does she love me?
2006-07-18 06:40:06 · 8 answers · asked by ravi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we talk over phone only. I am at a distant place and haven't seen her from many years.
2006-07-18 08:10:49 · update #1
i think that she is confused and has some mental problems. no one in there right mind would want to date their rapist. maybe you should help her get some counceling.on the love thing. honestly i dont know. i think that also ties into her mental problems
2006-07-18 06:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Qu'ee Roxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you may love her, this girl is not well.
If she was indeed raped, she has serious emotional issues, and the fact that she changed her story many times and said she does not love you just makes me feel that you are not her priority.
She needs counseling, and once she gets it (if she gets it), then you two need couples counseling if you are going to get past the issues that she has, and how badly she hurt you.
Do not trust her to know what her true feelings are until she has gotten some serious help.
I wish you the very best of luck with this.
2006-07-18 13:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Leah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about finding someone else. she doesn't sound very stable. she has played you as the fool. used you and others. to abort the baby how cruel. she cant be in love with you if this is what she has done. move on from her or you will find yr self forever getting hurt
2006-07-18 13:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very hard ?....I mean girls have very very very mixed feelings......I mean guys just dont understand...But it sounds like the only reason she went to him in the first place was bc of the baby......Then she must have thought....You guys were meant to be....you need to talk to her about it and soon....If you dont think she loves you ask her.....She won't be mad bc of what she did....Dont be afraid....If she doesn't know what to say then she must.....If she automatically starts saying why would you think that and stuff she doesn't sorry.....GOOD LUCK â¥
2006-07-18 13:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess not since she lied to you and even hurt you i mean like if i did i would tell but not in a way saying that i liked it in front of the one i like she went out with him for the child for the good of it but she could of gone with you if she loves you so much you could of done the same thing with it but better if she went with him and raped her wut do you think would happen to the child? probably worse don't you think
2006-07-18 13:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE needs a psychologist, HE needs to be in jail and YOU need to move on.
2006-07-18 13:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she doesn't love you. and no offense, that's not exactly a bad thing. she sounds pretty messed up...
2006-07-18 14:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt love you.......... its too obvious!
2006-07-18 13:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by bubu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋