i got in a fight with my mom, and i talked back to her pretty badly... and now she won't let me go ...?

Question

to a party that everyone's going to.. it's gonna be a really big great one... i've been looking forward to it.. what are some things i can say to get her to let me go... like things to make her forgive me?? help!! thanks

Answer 1

Ouch! Disrespecting the MOM is a bad thing!

You may not be able to find something to say to let her go.

You can start with telling her that you are sorry you fought with her and that you know you were wrong to talk back to her like that.

If you tell her you love her, that should help.

How about if you promise to try not to fight like that, and back chat... and to say you will think about what you two are _discussing_ rather than just give her cheek.

To get to the party, you will need to address issues like parental concerns for your safety, supervision, transport.

IF she lets you go... you are going with a friend's mom? there will be appropriate supervision (ie. adults she can trust, if this is age appropriate for you) ...

She will be worried about your exposure to drugs, alcohol and sex.

She MAY be worried about a ton of other stuff. You will need to open communication channels to get this out of her and talk it over.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I remember those days. All I can say is that it is way more important to fix the relationship with your mom than going out to have fun. Hopefully someday you will realize how special it is to have a great relationship with your family members. As for your situation, you should really give a sincere apology with out expecting to still be able to go to the party. Something like "Mom, I want you to know that I really regret the fight we had and more importantly how I talked back to you. I never meant to hurt your feelings with the words I said and I should have shown you more respect. I realize that you only have loving intentions for me and I am truly sorry. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me because I love you mom." And just leave it at that and don't even bring up the party till maybe the day of. If she ends up letting you go, then great. If not, then you just have to chalk one up to a lesson learned for next time. Anyways, there will always be more great parties!! Good luck.

Answer 3

Sometimes we all say things we dont mean out of anger and really hurt someone you care about. There are no words than can take back what you already have said. Just be honest with your mom and tell her how sorry you are for saying whatever it is you said and express to her how you feel. There are no magic words to make your mom let you go to the party. And if you dont I am pretty positive there will be another really big great party that will be just as fun if not more fun than this one. The most important thing is you talk things out with your mom. Talk from your heart and she may see things differently. When you act like a child expect to be treated as one.

Answer 4

You may not like this answer, but one way that you can get her to forgive you is to ditch the party and ask her if she would like to go do something. Maybe go to a movie, or just out to eat. I used to fight with my mother all the time when I was young, and now I wish I could have taken it back. There will be other "great " parties, and you will still have your friends if you don't go to this one. You never know how much time you have with your mother. You should never take it for granted that she will always be there for you. I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but go hug your mom, tell her you love her and that you are sorry, and become friends again.

Answer 5

I don't know the details, but I think the key is to act as the adult you wanted to be treated like. Screaming and fighting are a child's tactics, and so your mom will treat you as such. Even if you feel she's wrong, the first step would be to ask your mom if you can talk to her and apologize for the way you talked to her. Let her know you understand her side of the story, and that in the future, you would like to handle disagreements by talking calmly, and that you understand your place as the daughter and will show respect for her. Depending on her mood after this conversation, you can decide if you want to ask to go to the party then, or give her a little time to digest the new, well-behaved you.

Answer 6

You probably don't want to hear this but, you were wrong to back talk your mother the way you did and now you have to suffer the consequences by missing the party. It would be cool if you wanted to apologize to your mother because you felt guilty because you thought that you might have hurt her but, it seems like the only reason you want your mother's forgiveness is so that you can go to the party. I think you should apologize to your mother even if she doesn't let you go because it was wrong to disrespect her and maybe she will let you go but if she doesn't, take your punishment, there will be other parties.

Answer 7

Well...you can start by saying your sorry and that you should not have mouthed off like that and would you for give me mom? I love you,mom? Something along those lines. You still might not be able to go to the party. (You should have thought of that before you mouthed off). But at least you would be a better person for apologizing! This will make an impression on your mom for future reference.
On the other hand, she might relent and let you go! I'm keeping my fingers crossed!
p.S.
Did you noticed that most of these posts are telling you to apologize????

Answer 8

I'd clean the house, make dinner, etc, and try to get back on good terms with her. If she lets you go to the party, that's great. If not, don't throw a fit, because 1) you'll just make her even more mad 2.) She'll disregard everything (cleaning, cooking etc) that you've done. What I mean is, even if she doesn't let you go, keep making sure the house is clean, doing chores without being told, this way she knows that your mature and maybe next time she'll reconsider.

Even if you don't get to go, it isn't the end of the world.

Answer 9

Moms cant stay mad at their daughters for long! thats how mums are, so dont have to worry so much. Give her a hug and tell her how sorry you are and you have been real idiot to behave that way.. And I know sinserely you are sorry, your question shows that.. So just let your mom know that. Do something nice for her, like helping out in home, do the dishes or laundry. She'll forgive you, than pop out the question again. I really wish and hope you can make it to the party. And along the way in life, dont hurt your mum anymore. Moms are precious.

Answer 10

i understand this sucks, yet you do actual ought to inform the school. this can cause them to better offended, yet now adults will be watching, so that they have got a lot less oppurtunities to be propose to you. the kind of behavoir you're describing ought to get THEM suspended or expelled, and it isn't ok. also, if the school receives in touch, it truly is plausible that your mom will understand precisely how undesirable this challenge is for you, and provide help to modify. desire this facilitates, keep your head up:)