I am speaking regarding an ex-boyfriend. He had an addiction to porn online, this is why I left him. I had managed to crack his password and got into his yahoo chat and discovered he had a thing for gay webcam activities and chat rooms. On top of that, I also discovered he had been a member of 2 groups that dealt with something even worse. One group was called Voyeur Dads - It is a members only group that was all about men who spy on their teenage daughter(s) and her friends. The other was a really disgusting one called Spunk my Daughter's Face, where men posted pictures of their daughters and the other men posted the pics again after they had ejaculated on them. I never saw pics of his daughter, who is in fact his step-daughter, but he had a large collection of her collected on his computer. I always felt there was something off there and I still do, even 2 years later. I google his screen name sometimes and recently found pics of his now 16 yr. old step-daughter on a website for men.
2006-07-18 06:32:20 · 18 answers · asked by Sixth_Sense 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Yes, it made sense to me to call the police, I don't understand people who for some silly reason or out of fear, don't do the right thing. The problem was and still is - his ex-wife hated my guts and thought I was the nutcase because I went through his computer. (Although, he never told anyone WHY I did it or what I found and of course, he said he left ME.) His ex thinks I am the devil incarnate. I have only the link to the existing website and the pictures are of her cleaning her room. ???
It's a website where men rate how hot the girl is. This is the most recent thing I can offer. The other stuff may have been wiped off his computer after I left. I'm sure he is much smarter now about containing things. I told his ex once about a particular time when his step-daughter was over and he kissed her goodnight on the mouth. She was 15 at the time and I thought it was just creepy. His ex got mad at me and said I was trying to break up the family. I really don't know who to turn to.
2006-07-18 06:52:54 · update #1
Sorry, there is such a small limit with which to write... My ex boyfriend is her legal guardian. He is practically her Dad since he was with her Mother since the step-daughter was an infant. I have a feeling he would never and has never done anything to her PHYSICALLY, but I know his online habits and what he was capable of doing behind MY back for a year and 1/2 and I think by him using her the way he does online, he can have his sick fantasies come true without truly saying he did anything wrong. She is not naked, but her cleavage is spilling out in most pictures. He has one other step-child and 2 biological children (One of which is a daughter, app. 11 or so now.) but there were hardly any pictures of them in comparison to her on his computer when I lived there. Even though I don't think he'd cross into physical reality, I still can't forget it. I have to do something, even though he technically has not broken any laws. At what point does fantasy become something illegal? ???
2006-07-18 07:24:26 · update #2
In answer to Stiif_Greygoose_Martini's question about my 'holier than thou attitude" after going through his personal things with his password - Thank you for your advice, it was right on and I agree with you, however...there was a reason I was looking and there was a reason I did it the way I did. If I suspect someone is doing something behind my back, I will do everything I can to find out, thank you very much. It just so happens, I found out a little more than I bargained for. Thus, the subject at hand.
2006-07-18 07:38:10 · update #3
I would speak to the daughter's school officials and ask them to discreetly investigate the matter with police assistance
2006-07-18 07:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by dC4 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Do you have any proof that he is the one who posted the photo? Do you have any proof that he is doing anything wrong to his daughter? Perhaps you could call the mother, but that is the extent I would go. People need to learn that just because someone likes to look at something, doesn't mean they would ever participate in it. People also need to learn to mind their own business when they have no proof of something wrong happening. We can't go around convicting people based on a "feeling".
And where do you get off as a holier-than-thou after you've hacked into his private accounts?
2006-07-18 06:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you checked him out pretty good. Guess the next step would be to call the "Child Protection Services" or like the other guy said call the cops, but you better be real sure he is doing something wrong. Certainly sounds like he is the type to abuse a little girl but his fear of getting caught might restrain him from going "Too Far" and doing something illegal.
2006-07-18 06:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Bingo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so wrong, You have a very good eye for this and should be proud that you might be able to bring this sick man down, you should write this all down or go to the site and print these things out. Be cautious if he finds out that you are trying to shine light on his illegal doings. But defenately tell her mother, and show her too if she is not in denile because she might not want to beleive you.
2006-07-18 06:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by ))-->rOXY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is nude in the pictures, you can and should report it. Otherwise, I am afraid, there is nothing you can or should do. Most men have freaky habits ONLINE( you would be horrified) Most of it is shear curiosity. It is his step daughter and as gross as it is too you, he probably does fantasize about her. Weather or not he takes it to the next step is unknown. I would say hang low.
2006-07-18 06:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the cops right now, don waste a single precious second. U could save the poor girl's life. I';m pretty sure he has been abusing her as well. Do it...do it right now, we are all right behind...small step for man, giant leap for mankind! silence is not golden! whatever...u get my point! CALL THE FRIGGIN FBI!
2006-07-18 06:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the police with an anonymous entity or seek help from local help groups.
2006-07-18 06:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by bb_biker2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those "clubs" alone are grounds for a police report. Turn this sick ****** in NOW!
2006-07-18 06:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by izombix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show what you have found to your local family & children services.....this way your name stays out of the picture.
2006-07-18 06:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take your evidence to the police, and the teen's mother.
2006-07-18 06:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋