how can i approach a guy even though im ugly??

Answer 1

you are not ugly honey.....i don't believe that for a second and neither should you....

Answer 2

First of all, you are not ugly. If you look in a mirror and see ugliness you are not looking hard enough. A mirror reflects only a thin image of who you are. You are beautiful. Just ask your mom. But, as for how to approach a guy, the old way is the best. Just walk up to him and introduce yourself and before long you'll find a lot of things to talk about.

Answer 3

Ba-Be' you shouldn't be approaching any Guys if that's the way you feel about yourself. You should first Learn to Love yourself and find Beauty within before you seek outside relationships. You have to be confident in knowing that if the relationship doesn't work out that it had nothing at all to do with your looks because if you do allow yourself to think like that, than your self-esteem could really be ruined! Take may advice, cool out on Guys for a while and learn to Love Yourself First! God Bless You.

Answer 4

I would just sort of take a chance. I am ugly and I try to approach girls some of the time. One thing I learned is there are no league's and sometimes the person you ask will be flattered that you even tried.

Answer 5

I would bring back your self asteem first of all.
You have to love yourself before you can ever love anyone else. and there will be problems if you don't.
Guys don't like it when girls call themselves Ugly and be mean to themselves. and what r u doing>> being mean to yourself. I would practice loving yourself and believeing that you are beautiful before getting involved into someone's life.
Once you have masterd that then I would say I would..
Go up to him and start a conversation easy as that.
ask him questions and tell him some info about yourself.
Don't make it harder then it really is. It's simple you just got to think out of the box!
Look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself you are beautiful and God made you the way he wants you to be. and start believeing it. and all things are possible if you believe!!

Good luck!

Answer 6

Don't never see your self as ugly cause got made you as he want you. Just say your not as attractive as other females, but it doesn't always matter about looks cause your personality can make you ugly if it's bad. Just try talking to the boy trust me he will notice you first just try to be a good friend to him then when he see how special you really are then make the step to tell him how you really feel and if he don't feel the same nothing will change but I know he's gonna feel the same if you personality is perfect. Just believe in yourself.

Answer 7

now why would say ur ugly come on now. Dont be so harsh on ur self.. Look if u want change ur image but not ur personality or the person u are.. Just change ur look maybe u'll like it more then the person u are now... BUt if u feel comfortable in how u look now then dont worry bout it... 1st make sure that the person is easy to talk to n just tell them how u feel.. N heck yes it can be hard believe me....U will feel much better at then end..Just tell them look i like u a lot .N i been thinking bout u lately n i would love it if u gave me a chance.. LOL i dnt know u try to think of something good luck sweetie..

Answer 8

I love girlst that have enough guts to approach a guy, thats freaking hot. cause its not usual and people like unusual things, things out of the parameter. there are no ugly women, you must have something, some quality that is the best you have, when you dress up and make up try to increase that quality so the others qualities would be less visible.

Answer 9

Well, at this point I would say don't...until you learn that you are NOT ugly. You need to start looking in the mirror and like what your are seeing because it is YOU and no one else. There is no one else like you! You have to understand that all the good things about you SO outweigh anything that you feel is a fault that it isn't even worth worrying about. Then, be yourself and go up and talk to him. If things don't work out...respect his decision. BUT, understand that he has lost out just as much as you MAY have...if not even MORE! :) Regretably, because society is the way it is right now....it (unfortunately) may take these guys longer than it should to see just how beautiful you really are! Alright, now go practice in the mirror. Find out what you like about yourself. Your eyes, your mouth, your ears, your hair, your stomach, your legs, your breasts...whatever! Find what you like and say to yourself...I have really nice ____! Then, start looking at stuff you don't like, and begin to think, "you know what...it really isn't that bad, I like that too!". Have fun, Matt.

Answer 10

Have confidence, and he sould see your inner beauty! If he doesn't, then he's a superficial jerk who wasn't worth your second glance.

Anyway, you shouldn't think you're ugly, because I bet you aren't! Ugly is relative to whatever pretty is, and pretty is relative to whatever fad is going on at the time. So, don't worry about all that, and just be comfortable with yourself. Your beauty, your confidence, and brilliance will shine in the end! Any guy who rejects you because you don't look like his idea of beauty is not worth the time! Move on, your knight in shinning armor is waiting for you to give him that second glance!

Answer 11

Put a PLASTIC bag over your head! And for all of you that said things along of the lines of "You aren't ugly.." Shut the hell up! You have no idea if she's ugly or not. There are a lot of ugly people in the world who don't think they are, at least she can admit it.