a month before my wedding,the closer it gets the stupider my fiance acts?

Question

cold feet,or should i call the whole thing off?just want some helpful advice,no insults please

Answer 1

you really need to sit down and talk to him. Communication is a big thing, especially in marriage. He probably has cold feet. He see's the date getting closer and closer, and hes getting freaked out. Alot of people go through that. Im getting married this August, and a couple weeks back I got really nervous. After talking with my fiance about it, I feel alot better. You should try the same thing.

Best Wishes

Answer 2

Maybe he is nervous? Have you tried talking to find out what is going on? Don't call it off if you are not sure what's wrong.

Trying talking to your fiance to see what is wrong -- or what may be scaring him. It might be something very small. Were you already living together? If you aren't - maybe that might be making your fiance nervous or scared at the reality of everything.

All I could say is talk.. talk ... talk -- that is the only way to get to the bottom of things. Good luck!

Answer 3

I'm sure he's dealing with cold feet. Ask him if he still wants to get married. He may no longer want to, and may be trying to push you into to calling it off, so you'll bear the burden of being the one and not himself.

Answer 4

We need more details but I agree with above. You really need to talk it out with him....... it's prob just cold feet and he's getting nervous.

Answer 5

Wait till you're married!

Answer 6

Stupid how? Without more info I can't really advise you.

Answer 7

You need to be more specific. What is he doing that's stupid?

Answer 8

he's not acting