What can i do to help them?
2006-07-18 06:05:27 · 22 answers · asked by DONAVON N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it is not your responsibility to take care of the whole family. Live your life to and decide whether all there issues are affecting you.
Show support and love but distance yourself for the moment if you have to. Tell them how much you love them despite all there downfalls and have faith that they will get the help they need.
2006-07-18 06:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh darling....please go stay with a relative or somewhere you can be safe. In the meantime, see if you can get a relative to help your brother get off coke! As far as your sister is concerned, just hope that she gets the right pre-natal care and gives that baby up for adoption unless she wants to have her child go through the same drama she is going through. BREAK THE CYCLE!
I hope you learn from all of this...you had enough brains to ask your question, now take care of yourself first, then help your family the best way you can!
Good Luck.
2006-07-18 13:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to your brother and take him to go get treatment because he obviously has a problem. He shouldn't be doing drugs at the age of 12. Your sister well there's really nothing you can do for her but be by her side and help her if she needs anything. Is your mother aware of all that's going on? Hopefully you can see the mistakes made by your siblings and learn to make better decisions! :) Good luck hope all goes well!
2006-07-18 13:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they do not stay with you and perhaps your Dad.
I do not know if your sister can be helped in terms of intervention as it may be too late for "alternatives" for her.
You can help her by getting her information of babies health or subscribe to Parenting magazines.
Your brother can be helped by counseling by someone older like perhaps your Dad.
There is not enough information here to know for sure.
Your Mom can use counseling too.
You need to learn to survive the situation so perhaps you can help them without risking your own health and security.
Teachers, Clergy, Doctors and if necessary Police.
Before you dial 911 call the local desk and ask for the community relationship officer and tell them your story.
I am not asking you to send them to jail, police do more than arrest people.
2006-07-18 13:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by KnowSean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your dad in all of this???
You need to get your brother in rehab.
You need to determine if you sister wants to keep the baby or give it up for adoption and help her with the decision. Have her talk to other teenage moms.
You need to tell your mother that she really needs to be a mom and stop stealing, and if she doesn't then you need to turn her in.
Good luck.
2006-07-18 13:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry 4 that life must be hard on u i really don't know what 2 say but u should take more care of Ur self and hopefully u don't end up like them I'm sorry
2006-07-18 13:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call child protection agency in your area, they will take the kids, get your brother in rehab and at the least prenatal care for your sister. Sounds like you don't live with your Mom. count your blessings
2006-07-18 13:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of legal age, you can get your pregnant sister out of the house and your brother needs to go to some type of rehab to quit his habit. And for your mom she is on her own.
2006-07-18 13:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. If you're still at school speak to a mentor/someone you feel you can share this with pref a teacher or counselor, if not what about pops? Or his family? Reach out help will come, God bless.
2006-07-18 13:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by mizzsquitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek Dr. Phil
2006-07-18 13:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋