2006-07-18 05:41:45 · 37 answers · asked by danny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, first of all is it a hard slap or is she just slapping you because you were joking with her, or playing around? I slap my boyfriend, more in a playful way, when he's picking on me or something like that.
If she slaps you out of anger, then that's not a good sign. I would try talking to her, to tell her you don't like being slapped, and ask her maybe why she does it. If that doesn't work you might want to re-evaluate the relationship and where it's going, and if it's worth getting physically hurt (because that is NEVER a good thing).
However, if she's just doing it to be smart, or in a playful way, then it shouldn't be anything to worry about. But even if that bothers you, you should be able to tell her without her getting defensive or upset.
Good luck.
2006-07-18 05:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by plcarnrike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she really does love and respect you she wouldn't put her hands on you or slap you or abuse you in any way. there are other ways of taking care of a situation for example if you said something she'd didn't like or approve of she should have some time to cool off and then think about how to react to the situation appropriately. when she cools off she should say you know what i had a problem with what u said before i would like to know what you meant when you said.......but there should be no hitting involved because once she hits you she will make it a habit that will be hard to stop. so good luck
2006-07-18 14:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she slaps you alot, she's abusive. Get out of the relationship. If she slapped you over something you said, you should apologize and move on.
2006-07-18 05:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by MANDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Depends on the situation. If she was serious, than try to find out why she did that and how she's feeling. But if she was just playing than take it as a joke and laugh it off. Whatever you do, don't slap her back...that in most cases will make things worse.
2006-07-18 05:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by NinI BaBii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats freaking hot, I wish my girlfriend do that to me, but shes too shy. If she slaps you tell her to slap you again, and then kiss her and tell her that if you got to be punished for kissing her you will receive 100 slaps and then make love to her. make up sex its the best sex in the world
2006-07-18 05:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by jrod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever hit the girl back!
1) It's a moral rule
2) She could report your action to try to get you trouble.
What to do about her slapping you:
1) Be a man
2) Tell her that under no curcumstances will you tolerate that (communicate with her about it, be firm but loving/caring)
3) Tell her how it makes you feel
4) Change what ever you could be doing to cause her to get angry
5) Tell her what you will do to change what ever is causing her to be angry.
6) Be safe during situations where this could happen again
2006-07-18 05:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing whatever made you get slapped.
2006-07-18 05:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Answer Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are obviously less dominant then her and she is expressing it in the slap ....
Two options leave her, but it may happen again with another woman, or dominate her
2006-07-18 05:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything but slap her back, b/c if you do, and a guy like me sees that, it doesn't matter what she did but you'll get jumped.
2006-07-18 05:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by nate_ramos_33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off what did she slap you for, if you did something wrong, knock it off
if she just did it to do it, then slap that dump ***** back
2006-07-18 05:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋