What is your normal time frame for being this intimate?
2006-07-18 05:38:15 · 25 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would definitely be out of my character but each person is different. It depends on the person, if your physically attracted to them but there's no spark then it might turn into a one night stand. If you are physically attracted and there are some sparks from both parties then intimacy could be possible the first night.
2006-07-18 05:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel its completely normal if you both feel a deep connection and want to be intimate on the first date. Oh, the girl is probably a walking STD. It's prefectly normal for guys to want to have sex on the first night. But, if a girl agrees chances are she's easy and this isn't her first time having sex on the first date.
2006-07-18 05:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by ithink... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be out of character especially if you don't call the person back for a 2nd date. So best is to wait until you get to know them a little better.
2006-07-18 05:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that if both of u r comfortable with each other...
there's no normal time frame to me at least, its only the quality of time spent instead of quantity..
2006-07-18 05:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me it would be...just because u dont know that person too well and y waste ur time when u dont know if they have something bad downstairs? plus condoms dont protect u from every std out there. i think if u do that u are just putting urself at risk for contracting one...yes it is the 21st century, and thats y there are so many out there! i say put ur snake in ur cage until u get to know the person better....
2006-07-18 05:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by butterflidesi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did once when i was younger. i thought it was the right thing to do. i was very wrong.
i learned that if you want a guy to respect you then you have to respect yourself and sleeping with him on the first date is not the way to do it.
i wait a couple of months now before i sleep with a guy. if he is still around after that time then i know he likes me.
2006-07-18 05:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not normal...so don't go by that answer.....a decent man/woman would not.....they would wait at least a few dates and get to know the other person first......are there some that do? absolutely....and the 21st century has nothing to do with it.....there were ladies that would all through history......many with people not only did they go out with once, but didn't even know that long....or didn't know at all.....
2006-07-18 05:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It would take me a few weeks to become intimate.
2006-07-18 05:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jack Nicholson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally out of my character! I have known my bfs for about 3 weeks-1month before I give it up.
2006-07-18 05:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I WAS A WIDOW ONLY SUSEPTIBLE TO SINCERITY IN MARRIAGE
I WAS MARRIED AT 18. I DID NOT HAVE A "BOYFRIEND" TIL I WAS 33
THEN, HE WAS A TRUE "FRIEND".
SEXUAL ACTIVITIES VARY CULTURE TO CULTURE AND RELIGION TO RELIGION
TIME TO TIME "FREE LOVE" CYCLES DOCUMENTED THROUGHOUT HISTORY
FREE LOVE IS AN OXYMORON
YOU MUST DOUBT ANYONE THAT WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT ANY DEPTH OF EMOTIONAL SPIRITUAL INTEREST. YOU HUSBAND LOVER CAN BE YOUR BEST FRIEND AND ADMIRER : )
IF YOUR PARENTS DON'T TEACH YOU ABOUT SEX AND MARRIAGE YOU MAY HAVE UNTOWARD CONFUSING INCIDENTS
RESPECT YOURSELF YOUR CHILDREN AND YOUR FUTURE. MARRIAGE OR NOT AT ALL.
2006-07-18 05:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋