do you go into it with an end in mind? or do you simply follow the emotions at the moment? if you do not have a purpose in mind, then why do into relationships in the first place? anyway, i just wanted to know why you guys and gals go into romantic relationships. thanks in advance.
2006-07-18 05:29:15 · 3 answers · asked by abstemious_entity 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on you and how you percieve a relationship. Your history with relationships. It's all very psychological. And believe it or not it also has alot to do with how your parents relationship was when you were a child. If your father up and left your mom your going to always be assuming that any guy your with is going to leave you.. because hey.. thats what guys do right? What other comparrison do you have? Alot of the time, Me personally speaking, I go into a realationship assumeing the worst. Because then if you assume the worst you don't get dissapointed. Dissapointment sucks, why would anybody want that? But the truth of the matter is that theres someone out there for everyone. And the point of it is so that you know, just know that theres one person who will understand you, or at least try to, no matter what the situation is. And all these little decoys along the way are just there for you to learn what you want and what you don't want from your 'ideal mate' ~ as utterly revolting as that sounds. I dont know if this answers your question and you probably think I'm some nerd.. but yeah. thats all she wrote.
2006-07-18 05:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by blooladybug87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me dating is spouse interviews.
2006-07-18 05:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with blooladybug's answer.
very good!
2006-07-18 05:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋