How do i break up wit sum1 that hella loves me without hurting him but i mean like this guy wants 2 marry me but i still want 2 see wats out there OMG wat do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 05:23:55 · 21 answers · asked by sexy 916 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just break up with him. He'll get over it and realize that he never really hella loved your *** and you'll probably end up dating a bunch of assholes and then realize that you hella screwed up.
2006-07-18 05:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aren't you the one interested in some younger guy. as i stated before, you may want to let go of your current BF before you do something you may regret. if you are attracted to other men, you may not be in love. you may just be going through the motions because you don't know how to get out of your current relationship. there is no way to break up w/o hurting him. but you can reduce further pain by just doing it as kindly as possible. be honest and tell him the truth, that you're just not ready for such a strong commitment. don't drag it on any further then you need to.
2006-07-18 12:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all honey you are asking the wrong people. do you think any in here actually care about whats going on in your life? If this cares and loves you so much why are you letting him go? hopefully its not because of his looks because those come and go. trust me I once used to date nothing but hot, gorgeous girls until one day I met one that I thought was the one. I was totally committed to her and I even wanted to marry her. for some reason just like your she wanted to see what else is out there. I gave her space and eventually we broke up. now she totally regrets it! sure she met a lot nice looking guys but nobody treats her half as good as I used to. now she wants me back and It ain't going to happen. I met someone else that might not be as cute as she was but this girl is crazy for me and she is a total sweetheart I will never let her go. If you made up your mind all ready then go for it, but it seems that you got a good man, be careful make sure you don't regret it.
2006-07-18 12:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy vercetti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be honest. It will hurt but its better than letting him go on thinking he has a chance. The longer it goes on the more pain he will feel. Or you could just pack up and move to another city and not leave a forwarding address.
2006-07-18 12:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mamadog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's really not an easy way around this. Really you got to be up front with him. Let him know that while you appreicate him, you feel there maybe something else and at this time you don't see yourself married to him. It'll hurt, but at least it'll give you both a chance to move forward. Good luck. :)
2006-07-18 12:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be first away from him for sometime. Try not to see him for a few days. This would give you a time to know if you really love him or if he loves you. Once you are sure that your love is mutual. Do not leave him.
2006-07-18 12:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by JT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously not ready to have a safe, secure relationship, without the possibility of catching aids something else with out a classification yet, becuase thats what's out there. Avoid him and don't respond to his calls.
2006-07-18 12:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doubting the relationship and you know this guy just sin't what you want then you jsut need to do it. Theres no way aorund that. It's cruel to let him believe that your going to stay with him and to drag it out.. if it's over its over.. either way he's going to get hurt.. but how hurt is up to you.
2006-07-18 12:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by blooladybug87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't tell him the truth you'll be prolonging the sorrow. Don't feel sorry for your self or for him. Aknowledge his feeling and thell him how you feel. May be all you need is to reassess your feelings. Try a break, sometimes it a more subtle way to star letting go.
2006-07-18 12:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by El Luigy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u say no and walk away and talk to the first hot guy u see. jk u can't really break up without hurting someones feelings.
2006-07-18 12:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by freshgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋