i am like totally in luv w/this girl but she only likes me as a really good friend wat do i do...(im reaching drastic measures now) im seriously desperate....
2006-07-18 05:20:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately there may not be anything you can do. Just because you love someone doesn't mean they love you too. The best thing you can do is tell her how you feel and if she still only wants to be friends, find someone else to date and show her what she is missing.
Good luck
2006-07-18 05:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok babyboy listen up fo real this is old skool aight- you don't know nothin bout this
anyway you have to become her best friend and be really really really patient because if you are there for her everytime another guy screws her over she is going to notice your qualities. It takes time but you just gotta be the one she turns to whenever someone else fails her
oh do not ever ever never never insist on a relationship because if the time isn't right ur just gon run her off. let her know once if she declines be like aight kool and then become her best friend.
that way it'll always be in the back of her mind like " oh he's not like that" or " he really does care about me" and " he would never do something like that to me"
you feel me bro
2006-07-18 05:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by carol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. She would at least know how you felt about her. Sure, she might not like you back ut at least you kno that you told her and you dont have to worry about hiding it. If you dont tell her now you will regret it. I have a friend that likes his best friend (it is a she) and he told her. She doesnt feel the same way but they r still friends. so just tell her. Good Luck =)
2006-07-18 05:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by marissamutilated™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should act like you're not interested in here. Make it like she's just another girl and see how she reacts to that. Bec if you really flirty with her and then you just stop all of a sudden she may wonder what happened...then she may start to realize that she likes you too and go from there....if it doens't work, then its better to be her friend then nothing at all...
2006-07-18 05:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
desperation is a sign of obsession, and this can be unhealthy. Tell her how you feel, adn be prepared to MOVE ON if she does NOT share your feelings.
Being interested in someone and asking them out is one thing, but feeling desperate is a sign that you have taken this obsession to far in your own head. She might not reciprocate your feelings and you CAN'T CHANGE THAT... so be prepared.
2006-07-18 05:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest turn-offs is desperation. Start working on not being so desperate. You can't force someone to be with you.
2006-07-18 05:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't likes you just forget about her. I mean if she knows how you feel and she still doesn't likes you it's just because maybe she's just not interested. I had the same situation with a friend of mine that liked me but I just didn't like him more than a friend and he was hurting himself by trying to make me like him even if I didn't.
2006-07-18 05:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing you should not be desperate. Girls don't like desperate. We like confidence and we like someone who can show us around and maybe teach us something about ourselves. If you show her that you are desperate she won't want you cause then you seem like a pussy. if she doesnt' want to be iwth you then there aint' really much you can do. I mean just accept it cause when she sees that you are not chasing after her anymore then she'll want you. and then it'll be totally up to you to see if you want to take her.
2006-07-18 05:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip, there are plenty of girls out there. If she isn't interested in anything more, move on. No girl likes a desperate guy.
2006-07-18 05:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest w/her and tell her how you feel, has she ever heard from you how you feel about her? It's a big risk to take. But it's worth a shot. Good Luck
2006-07-18 05:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋