can u B in love but still like sum1 elce cuz like i love my bf but i go 2 school wit this boi & he's heca cute, funny &,nice but i think he's a lil younger but not 2 much
2006-07-18 05:16:53 · 16 answers · asked by sexy 916 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if it is TRUE LOVE.....
2006-07-18 05:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of people in the world who have feelings similar to yours. There are, however, several reasons you may be feeling this way. It could be that you are not truly "in love" with your boyfriend. It could also be that your relationship is in some way inadequate, and you are longing for something else. It is also possible that you are what is called "polyamorous."
Polyamory is the ability/inclination to love more than one person at the same time. It is a relational orientation that can occur in some people. Some polyamorous people have relationship structures that do not adhere to the standard fairytale of prince and princess, together forever, that we are all fed as children. They can have relationships in which one person dates more than one person at the same time, or where three people all date each other at the same time, or they may have extensive networks of lesser relationships with one or no main partner. This does not make them sluts, whores, or incapable of love, it simply means that they have mastered jealousy in their lives, and understand that love can be felt for more than one person at a time. Polyamory os characterized by the INFORMED CONSENT of all people involved in the relationship, ie, one can't sleep with someone outside of your monogamous relationship and then call it "polyamory." There is absolutely nothing wrong with polyamory, but it is something that is uncommon, so be sure of your feelings. For more information on polyamory, either Google search, or try some of these websites:
http://www.polyamory.org/Howard/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory
There is also a Livejournal community dedicated specifically to the discussion of polyamorous relationships, called "polyamory."
2006-07-18 05:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by shawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married I liked this guy worked with. I fantasied about him. He now plays pro base ball. Nothing ever happened. But I think the reason I liked him so much is because I hated my exhusban so much. Sure I claimed I loved him. But I was not in love with him. We did not break up because of lack of love but lack of friendship. That's another story. You can look but don't touch.
2006-07-18 05:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nice girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then i don't think that you are really in love for the simple fact that when you are in love you can't seem to keep your mind of that person you are with them all the time and you only have eyes for that one person. That is real love. If you dont' have that then you are not in love.
2006-07-18 05:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Being in love means having love and compassion for ONE person and ONE person only. If you think you may have feelings for someone else then I would say "no" to being in love.
2006-07-18 05:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always feel atracted to another good looking guy. Just dont loose the one you love for doing something stupid.
2006-07-18 05:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but eventually, you would have to chose. I would go for love rather than the boy.
2006-07-18 05:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can, because you are too young to know what true love is.
2006-07-18 05:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Troy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on while I consult my Dictionary/Thesaurus or my Little Orphan Annie Super-Secret Decoder ring.....
2006-07-18 05:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by girl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your hart
2006-07-18 05:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by bigbrat81792 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course cause guysdo it but of couurse they rather B w/U
2006-07-18 05:18:52 · answer #11 · answered by hedonic penchant for graffiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋