Is she more than a friend or what?

Question

Not too long ago my boyfriend told me that he cheated on me; i was mad at first but we did work it out just because he admitted himself and said that he won't happen again. Since then i don't have the same trust. Not too long ago I found out some letters he wrote to a female friend( his best friend like he said) saying that he still have feelings for her; he loves her and when she's with him he feels like the world doesn't existe and so... he keeps calling her boo;Recently my boyfriend went to FL to see her and he was so sad on his way back; it's like he wasn't that happy to see me. He even plan to come back to have a surprise party for her. I do ask him about his feeling for her; He said he had feelings for her before he knew me ; but she didn't want anything but friends because she had bad relationship w/h other man before.but they are friends and will stay like that; he keeps talking about how sweet she is. I think he stills love her. Do you think it's more than just friendship?

The one he cheated before wasn't the same one he claims as his best friend. There are two different girls

Answer 1

It's more than a friendship for him, anyway. He's not over her and you're cheating yourself out of a relationship with someone who really cares for you. You are wasting your time with this guy. Let him go!

Answer 2

OMG, can't you hear the alarm clock sounding, its ringing clearer then a bell. He still cares about her and she still cares about him and whats worst neither one care about not hurting or offending you, b/c I assume she knows about you. You know what personally I wouldn't stay with this man anylonger if eventually he'll leave and stay with this women. If she's so great, stay with her...**** it. There are plenty of men that will love you for who you are and won't try to compare you or still desire other women when with you...With much hurt in your heart I think its the best thing for you b/c they definetly have a somethin' going on...