when you open up to then...they flirt with other girls too, or you get emails from their ex's...can someone please tell me why is the point in getting us to open up when you're just going to play with our emotions? AND NO I'M NOT BITTER I'M JUST HURT....
2006-07-18 04:58:12 · 9 answers · asked by prmami4eva_17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babe,
If a guy tells you that he's "tired of playing games," that means that he definitely HAS been playing games in his past!
However, that also menas that he is willing to suspend game-playing for now while he has something "serious" with someone.
But, of course, a guy like that will always have an eye out for the ladies.....one girl may just not be enough for that type of guy (you know what I mean, jellybean?)
Guys like that say they want something "serious," but that's only until someone better comes along.
I'm sorry you were hurt, but things like that happen all the time. Many women tend to overlook certain qualities in a guy, or they fail to trust their "gut instinct," just for the sake of Romance. Just so she can say things like: "I got a man" or "I have a boyfriend".....and everything else that goes along with being "in love."
Let's be honest here, ok.....most guys just want to get laid. That's the bottom line for a guy.
And although there are a lot of women out there who want to get laid too.....for the most part, most women are looking for romance, and "the one" man she will be with forever, and the one man who will make her happy for the rest of her life.
"Players" know how some women are, which is why they'll tell her ANYTHING, and EVRYTHING in order to achieve their "goal" (which is simply, to get laid!)
But don't worry, not every guy is a "Player." Eventually, an honest woman will meet an honest man, and everything will fall into place.
Good luck to you! Remember to trust your gut instincts once in a while, so you can weed-out some of those unsavory characters you're gonna run across in Life.
2006-07-18 06:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Pulse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think that the game is a 2 way street and that maybe women are just as guilty as men. Also, I would let them know about the emails because chances are, he knows nothing about it. I am sure that the person that hurt you did not mean to and maybe the whole thing is a misunderstanding. Lots of people meet here, flirt here, joke around here, ect. It is the place where you can let go of inhabitions and have a little honest fun. It does not mean everyone says everything they mean here. A lot of the time it is for points and fun ect. The main thing is do not shut him out and leave him wondering. You need to be honest because I can assume he has been honest with you. Good luck and I hope this helps.
2006-07-18 05:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't the only ones that play head games. We are all guilty of it at least once. As far as the E-mails, depends on what's in them. I'm still friends with most of my exes. That doesn't mean I am doing anything else with them. I am with the one I am with for more reasons than can be counted. He knows this. He is the only one I love. Jealousy is a wasted emotion.
2006-07-18 12:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all of us do that, i dont so i can't explain to why those of us that are guilty of this do it. as far as emails from their ex's it may not be the guy's fault some females are just crazy like that. I am sorry you had to experience that, but before dating a guy it is always good to be friends first, at the least two weeks of taling, i went for a month of friendship, people can only hold a front for so long.
2006-07-18 05:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry, some people are just cheater and will never change. I am sure not all guys are like that, but please be more mature and on guard in the future, so you will not hurt emotionally or physically in the future.
Trust is like an investment. You want it to be good, but there is always a risk that it goes bad. It takes time. If there is any warning sign, do not hesitate to act on your instinct.
2006-07-18 05:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwh your in love and love does humorous issues to you!:) i have been in an similar situation, now am going to maintain this short he does no longer of advised his boyfriend of he did not also percentage a similar emotions for you! he's making an attempt to ease his concience i imagine yet he is going to damage his modern boyfriend. If it is you he actually loves. I say wait somewhat, keep it mutual and besides the actuality that you do don't be the reason his courting ends or he will under no circumstances forgive you:( yet don't be his 'bit on the area' if he needs to proceed he must be genuine to himself and his modern boyfriend:) good success xx
2016-10-14 22:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by vesely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say what comes around goes around, and it happens to all of us. Situation sounds familiar to me, maybe he's just a lying dog. Emails from ex's, from friends of friends, it's all the same. Did he blame you for the whole mess? Some men are just jerks. Not all of them, but some of them.
2006-07-18 06:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by GAgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first, did you play any games with him that may have hurt him? think about it. if he is like me then he can be very vendictive. waiting to return the favor. its a never ending game when it is played like that. if you didn't do anything to provoke this, then he is just an ******. contact me maybe i can help you more by understanding what is going on.
2006-07-18 05:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by vladshouse1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-18 05:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋