Being married, is it wierd for your husband to use a condom?

Answer 1

Yes. And if I find him with one, I would seriously question his commitment to me.

Answer 2

No. There are many options for birth control and planned parenting, if you take the pill for over a year the doctor would recommend you stop taking it and detox for at least nine months. that means you have to use another method. Other women cannot tolerate even the low doses of hormones present in the pill so they have to use other methods which are not as efficient, like foams which need the condom as a backup. Being married does not mean discarding the condom altogether, it is part of the options to enjoy a responsible sex life with your hubby. Some women who suspect hubby is playing around will certainly use the condom to protect themselves from any nasty thing he might've picked up somewhere else.

Answer 3

You're question needs to provide more info. Are you in disagreement about starting a family?? Are you on the pill or patch?? If its the only kind of contraception you use then no. I've had married friend that used condoms.

Answer 4

No, it is not weird if your husband wears a condom. He could be practising safe sex for more than one reasons.

1. Preventing pregnancy because he wants to enjoy you for some time before anyone else comes in the picture.

2. He might not want to catch any STDs from you

3. He might not want to transmit any STDs to you

Answer 5

Honestly yeah, I was told when I got maried that it's not rite for any partner to use any sort of protection but thats a damn joke. Thats why they have birth control. I'd never ask my husband to use a condom since we never have before.

Answer 6

Nope, when you have sex with your husband, you are also having sex with whomever he had sex with in the last five to ten years...or so I've heard.

If he doesn't want to have children right now then it is a good form of birth control. Consider yourself lucky that your husband is not exposing you to any past(or present)dalliances he may have had.

If you really want to know, go to the source and ask your husband. You should have no secrets.

Answer 7

I hate condoms!! I have always hated them!!!! And my husband never used one with me, both now that we are married and before when we were just dating....keeping in mind we we're sure and clear of STD's and I was on the pill.

Answer 8

personally i think it exhibits a little distrust in the relationship. as his wife it's presumed that you are faithful. either he doesn't trust you or maybe he's afraid of having a child too soon or at all. i would sit down and have a discussion with him about it. don't be accusatory or get overly emotional. just say that you want to know being that you are married. absolute worst case scenario: he has something and doesn't want to give it to you. good luck.

Answer 9

First of all,did you & your hubby always use condoms b4 now?If your answer is yes-no worries.If your answer is no & he just started this condom thing w/ you, his wife,i'd be terrified!To me that would be screaming-Cheater-afraid of what he might have contracted...trying to shield you from his infidelity being found out in the worse way.

Answer 10

Contraception should be discussed by both partners in any relationship. However, some men use condoms to lessen the feeling so they "last" longer.

Answer 11

Nope, in my second marriage, the doc said my mrs was allergic to babies, so I needed to use one.

In my first marriage, that mrs could have more, but insisted she didn't want any more after her daughter was born to replace her. Since she discovered that they could tear (and some of ours did break), we discovered safe sex techniques before it became the fashion. That is part of why she became my ex.