..BALDY!!!! You find this amazing girl and to your suprise she is single..you both get along great and your fascinated at just how pretty her looks are!!!(I mean like she would set hollywood alight!)
Then you find out she wears a wig...because she has a condition that makes her baldy. Weve all got things wrong with us right????? What would you do??
2006-07-18 04:46:35 · 35 answers · asked by P 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... if her having no hair is an issue ... then this is your problem and not hers,,
2006-07-18 05:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by oh my head 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if thats up to you if you love her and can accept the baldy then still go with her but if you cant deep down then dont because thats just lying to her and if you left or had an affair and said because you were baldy thats why I did it then your just no good might is well leave her now then breaking her heart in this way , she wouldnt feel so sad if after a long time you said like that to her because that means you didnt really love her and didnt accept her baldness you either like her or dont but , but you do something horrible like that cause then your just not a real man are you then
2006-07-18 05:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want that to be a reason a girl wouldn't date you?......You wanted to date her before you found out...right?.......And she is still the same person, its not contagious..it wont affect the way she treats you, unless you make it an issue......its only hair. We as women accept it when men go bald..and in fact some find it very sexy.....so why is it a problem for a woman?...Go on...be a Real Man and stop looking at her head and look at her heart....she could be "THE ONE" and you might be passing her up because of a wig.
2006-07-18 04:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life!!! I'm not a fella - but hey, if you were even thinking of breaking up with her, you deserve to be dumped! Who cares, I mean, yeah, it's nice if you find each other attractive, and I know it's a big deal for guys. There is a person with FEELINGS underneath 'baldy'.
2006-07-18 04:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by sir'slady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage her to do whatever she wants with her appearance. If she has the strength of personality, she might consider going without her wig to help others become more aware of her condition. That could help others who have the same condition cope, by reminding the rest of us that we should be sympathetic.
Besides, if a woman is good-looking with hair, she'll look fine without it. There's the woman from the first Star Trek movie, and Ling Bai. Both were very good looking without hair.
2006-07-18 04:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by foofoo19472 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her then it doesn't matter whether she has hair.
Screw what everyone else thinks about you or her ... it's about what you think about each other. If you make all your desicision based on what others think you are giving up your power to choose for yourself and what may truly make you happy... think about how you would feel without her in your life... if you feel the slightest bit sad or doubtful.. .then i think it's worth giving her a shot...
If it bothers you that much then it may be that you are more worried about what other people will think of you being with her. That is something you may need to work on.
Hey ... look on the bright side... she can wear her hair in any color, length, and always look different for you!
2006-07-18 05:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my students is bald, she has a variety of wig of diferent colours and lengths, we all love her and forgot she has no hair, we would suggest to her a different style/colours etc, in fact some other guys would wear one of her wigs just for fun , so if a guy rejects a girl cause she bald then he'd better not grow old, fat, lose his teeth/hair or has a disease that makes him look different.
2006-07-18 05:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by cheyenne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you really like her or not... If you like who she is, and can get past the hair issue, then that just goes to show that you're a true man.
It's so sad that people have to consider looks before they consider what's really on the inside. Just think.. can you spend the rest of your life with her? After a while of being with somebody, their flaws become less and less of an issue or concern.
If you like her, or even love her, it really shouldn't matter. There are things about my hubby that I didn't think I really liked, but after getting to know him, and falling in love with him, I have pretty much forgotten about his little quirks.. and don't even notice those things anymore...
Love her for who she is, not the hair (or lack there of) on her head
2006-07-18 04:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by K.rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have heard the pretties people or the people that u think is pretty all have something wrong with them. it doesn't matter if she is bald u should date her she might have a good personality and u never now what will happen u might end up marrying her and its not always about the looks
2006-07-18 04:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by ej109163 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, man..she has a medical condition and is still worthy of love (or at least a good time). you sound like you know what to do but in case you need a little push...CONTINUE SEEING HER!!
you never know, she could be the one.
2006-07-18 04:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a say slap her head as well as her tidy *** next time your ridin her. seriously if she hid it an lets say you got married and lived together for 50 years and she gave you everything you could expect from the love of your life, your soulmate then whipped it of as you were dying would you really give a toss? a mean bald, not bald let go and enjoy her personality!
2006-07-18 04:53:21 · answer #11 · answered by stu l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋