it would be my first time and i would be scared.
2006-07-18 04:42:39 · 23 answers · asked by Natasha C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may sound REALLY corny but, loosing Ur virginity is a very "serious" thing. Think about it, it's the 1 thing in this world that U can only give 1 person and 1 person ONLY. So whom ever U choose to give this special gift,PLEASE MAKE SURE THEY ARE WORTHY. This is not something that U should take lightly, and if U arent sure if U can talk too him about this, then PLEASE don't give him this special gift. U need to give it too someone that U have an open communication with.
REALLY think about this......Once it's gone U can NEVER get it back.
2006-07-18 04:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 14⤊ 2⤋
If you plan on losing your virginity to this man by all means inform him so he knows how to handle the situation, he must be less aggressive and more compassionate during the act. But tell him your afraid and therefore he will be more into realzing you b/c your first time is not a cake walk and a women needs to make it easier for him by relaxing!!!
2006-07-18 11:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girl SEX is not just a thing you do for fun it meant for a man and a women in love show how much they love one and other. and you should just wit and talk about this with your bf.
2006-07-18 11:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!
but, maybe you should wait. if he's your bf and you want to have sex with him, shouldn't you two have already discussed the virginity thing? think about your reasons for having sex with him and tell him the truth; that way your nervous feelings/actions will be justified.
2006-07-18 11:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Sex is not going anywhere. Whats the rush? If you want to come, just get some head. You probably wont come while having sex until your are older anyway
2006-07-18 11:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should, You need to REALLY think about it first though. You will be giving away something you will never get back. The last thing you need is to regret your first time.
2006-07-18 11:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him. Some boys do not like to be the first and some are proud of it. Use birth control and disease control always. I hope you are old enough to handle a sexual relationship!@
2006-07-18 11:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think B 4 u let it go cuz once it's gone you'll never get it back DON'T DO IT IF HE GOES 2 SCHOOL WIT U even though u shouldn't do it at all hold on 2 it as long as u can trust me it's worth it ur worth it
2006-07-18 12:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by sexy 916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is always the key to a successful relationship
2006-07-18 11:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him cuz if its your first time its probably going to hurt. That way if he cares he'll take it slow. If he dosent care hell bang the hell out of you and then leave you as your crying your eyes out.
2006-07-18 11:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Eric R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋