I cant even wear a regular tampon without it hurting so im very afraid to have sex what do i do
2006-07-18 04:36:55 · 35 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it hurts. wait til your older
2006-07-18 04:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by thelogicalferret 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, considering you have a problem using a tampon, yes it will. It is all dependent upon size. Of him and of you. Some women even bleed and tear, that will heal up on it's own after time. That is just one more reason to consider weather or not you are ready and if this individual is "the one". Best of luck to you.
P.S. Don't worry about the tampon thing while you are a virgin. That has no baring on the issue. DON'T listen to Sommer Swg!! ALWAYS use protection and you can catch something and get pregnant the first time!
2006-07-18 04:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. i really depends on your partner because if he humps you for 1-5 minutes it hurts but for example my boyfriend smokes weed and so it takes him FOREVER to ejaculate so our first time we went on for 53 minutes and it didn't hurt after 4 minutes. It actually felt really good. Yes you may bleed a little but make sure your parner changes the condom. Also, if tampons scare you then sex will because the penis head hurts to insert. i would say practice using tampons when your on your red dot, to stretch out your vaginal area OR use lubricant so that it will feel better when you do lose your virginity. Good luck with that!
p.s don't believe that whole "it wont hurt if your partner is careful.." and blah blah. they cant help it if it hurts you! just be safe and use spermicide condoms or you will really be sorry!
2006-07-18 04:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by ms♥ catepillarஐღஐஐღஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having problems in the tampon area, then yes, it's probably going to hurt. The only advice I can give is to ask you're partner to take it slow and easy. And remember virginity is something that once taken you can never get back so think hard about it before you do.
2006-07-18 04:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good, hot make-out session with your partner and try to relax. See if your partner will give you a nice back massage, first. Have lots of foreplay. Have your partner slowly slide his finger in a little bit at a time, and if he's into it, have him perform oral sex on you with lots of licking and kissing. Use a lubricant like K-Y jelly. Have your partner use a plain, lubricated condom and have him put it in just a little bit at a time. Have him put the tip in, then withdraw and have him continue putting it in and withdrawing slowly until he's finally all the way in. Also, tell him not to bang you hard but just move slowly and rhythmically until he comes. A lot of this will have to do with how good and understanding your lover is. It's still probably going to hurt the first time, but if you do all this, it's probably going to feel pretty good, too. Good luck!
2006-07-18 04:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Everett W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts, but it sort like ripping off a bandaid. It stings for a sec then it feels MUCH better. :)
Oh, btw, I don't know how old you are, but wait till you're like 18 or something. 'K. And don't use tampons until you have had sex.
2006-07-18 04:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true gentleman will take things nice a slow it should be very pleasurable and memorable for both of you. Should wait till married. A lot of emotional support needed afterwords. He may not be able to give because of parents. This may start a lot of family problems including pregnancy.
2006-07-18 04:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl its hurts like hell the first time and the second one too Don't let pear perisher make you do some thing that your not ready for Its not a bad thing to be a virgin i wish like hell i waited in till i was married...living that reqreat everyday
2006-07-18 04:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt, yes. But the best way to minimize the hurting is to not use protection of any kind. Besides, you can't get pregnant or catch anything the first time anyway.
2006-07-18 04:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay No!!!! it doesnt hurt unless the person your doning it with just wants to do it. But if its someone you care about and they care about you it wont hurt. My best advice to you is ask your mother like I did and this is wat she told be. Soif you want to do it be sure its the right person and not a hit and quit type boy. plus if yor a virgin you proabaly cant use a tampon because you hole is still tight (no offense)
2006-07-18 04:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately. Pain goes away after doing it a few times. You're not ready. Don't rush into sex. Get a vibe instead.
2006-07-18 05:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋