do you believe on lovers that onLy met on the Line and settle in the future?

Question

i had a bf.. i only met himin chat. do u think r relationship will lasts?

Answer 1

Well, I don't know you, but I will say this; Have you spoken on the phone? If not, do so. Ask him questions, get answers. Then later, reword your questions, and ask again. See if he is genuine. If you feel comfortable, meet in a public place. Then go from there... Don't second guess yourself. Go with your intuition once you have met. Who knows maybe it will be long term or just a laugh? Good Luck!

Answer 2

I believe it can work and know a few that have. A relationship working is not based on where you meet. There are losers online as well as offline. A few of my friends know that I started dating men I met online and they were freaking out cause they figured I would end up with a wierdo or serial killer. (LOL) I'm not saying there aren't predators online, but what I am saying is that the guys I met online were no different from the ones I met thru a friend, in the store, at the company where I work, etc. There will be red flags in any encounter. Don't push past the red flags. One thing you do want to do is see the person you are talking with. Exchange pictures. If the guy doesn't want to give you his home phone number and/or home address or send a picture, or only calls from his job, not at night or weekends, these are all red flags. Run, don't walk!

Answer 3

When I separated from my ex wife, I began lookin for someone online. Each time it was fun, new, a fresh start. Then i met the person, and it was real, tangible, LIFE. But usually, within the first 2 months, you get numbed to that feeling, bored, if you would. Then you find yourself going back to the chat rooms "just to see who's online." You find yourself checking out peoples profiles, pictures, then, just out of boredom, you IM them " hey, liked your profile". It always starts out simple like that. Or you find him/her in a private chat with someone else. It makes you rage. Don't get caught in the maelstrom of chatroom dating. You'll find yourself crying alone (as I did many times before). Remember, you can be anybody at as age with any looks in a chatroom, AS CAN ANYONE ELSE. Trust about 22.5% of what those in a chatroom say. Wanna find someone real? Go to Wal-Mart down the toy aisle (if your a guy) and in the sporting goods ( if you are a girl). Real people shop at Wal-Mart. McDonalds, too. That's where I met my wife now, and I can't be happier.

Answer 4

Depends on how hard you two work on the relationship even if you were on line. I met my man on line and to tell you the truth, It's hard as hell to just chat. Later on you're going to want the real thing. SO far, my relationship with him is good. We have arguements online and on the phone but in the end I love him so the arguement was nothing. Good luck with yours

Answer 5

Nope....online is fantasy not reality, and the sooner we all start to realise that the more fun we will all have.

Online is safe, no strings, no committments, just your imagination and fantasy running into overdrive.....

Stop being an *** and falling in love with someone you've never met!

Who is he by the way... i bet several of us are already chatting to him too!!! lol lol lol

Answer 6

It could possibly.

I met my current spouse online and then we began talking over the phone and eventually he came to visit. (He lived in NY, I live in TX) The second time he came to visit it was permanent and we were living together and soon married. We have been married for several years now and have 2 children together.

So it is possible.......

Answer 7

yah it can be true and u both can go in future if only u guyz love each other like helll....becoz i have a cousin she met her life partner through chat ....and i can say that they r a fantastic couple .....becoz they love eachother l;ike helll....so baby go and check out if the guy have feelings for uuuuu.....thn iam sure u guyz r gonna rock .....best of luck

Answer 8

Depends on both of u and u have to see each other to face reality!!...cuzz he might have some odd thing or attitudes that wont make u happy! or same with him about u.

Answer 9

i have a girlfriend... we met online in a chatroom... we both have the same wavelength... we both were born in the same day, same year... we have a lot in common... we both are going to meet each other... i guess we are going to settle in future and that answers your question...

Answer 10

it can be possible, i know abt this couple that are very much happily married and they met on chat, but b4 you reveal 2 much about yourself better get to know him well.