The last time we got together, he video taped the session and now if I deceide to stop the relationship, he will send a copy to my boyfriend and friends. What do I do?
2006-07-18 04:31:08 · 15 answers · asked by elizabeth arellano 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell your bf and take your chances. if he loves you a lot he will forgive you and if he doesnt, you only have yourself to blame. if you dont tell him its only gonna eat you up inside and you will probably come out worse than you would have
good luck
2006-07-18 04:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by zania n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well isn't that a double edge sword. I guess you could do one of two things. You can tell your current boyfriend and clear the air and stop seeing the older guy, or you can live like a prisoner under the thumb of this guy because he is holding the tape against you.. Just wondering.. why would you let the guy you are cheating with tape you?? Evidence?
2006-07-18 11:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by living this life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you really screwed up. He sounds like a real jerk and your boyfriend would probably say you are getting what you deserve. But black male of such can be illegal and you could threaten him with going to the police. But if you don't think it is that serious I guess you will have to deal with it. Why you let him video tape you cheating with him only you know. But you should have known he was entrapping you. But I think in the long run you will probably lose your boy friend so just to get even with this jerk call his bluff and tell him to send the video so they can see how much of a loser at sex he is lol
2006-07-18 11:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is, "how old are you?" and how old is the guy? This guy will now control you by using the videotape. Why did you cheat on your boyfriend? He wasn't giving you what you wanted or you simply wanted to try something new? It could be helpful if you answered these questions. I think you should try to destroy the videotape if you can and stop ******* this guy. If you boyfriend finds out then accept what was coming to you. I think you should just move on.
2006-07-18 11:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by explorer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the video tape and destroy it...But you shouldn't have been cheating in the first place your friends and boyfriend deserve to see who you really are.
2006-07-18 11:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you cheat on him in the first place? how do you know if he will send a copy to your boyfriend and friends, did he tell you he would? and if so that is called blackmail. all in all, you shouldn't have cheated on your boyfriend at all and if you don't love him anymore, come right out and tell him that (we should see other people).
2006-07-18 11:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it looks like you have gotten yourself in a pickle. does the video have a time/date stamp? if not then it may be hard for the guy to prove when it was done. in addition, does he know where your boyfriend lives? the truth is this guy is a d*** and you should do what ever it takes to get rid of him!
2006-07-18 11:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a dishonest loser. You deserve to have the tape sent out and be humiliated.
2006-07-18 11:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by ericdeana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone tape you next time.
Try to steal/get the tape maybe?
2006-07-18 11:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by Peter S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat next time cause you really ****** this one up
2006-07-18 11:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by xxx P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋