molested, was thrown out by his mom. poor chiild. this broke my heart. we/other/his friends were there for him at the end. we were his family. how can a mother be so cruel?
2006-07-18 03:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank you juniemoon.
2006-07-18 04:26:18 · update #1
Only God knows their heart. There is a possibility that they can go to heaven. I don't know how some mothers can be cruel. That's why everyone is not meant to be parents. Unfortunately, they don't find out until they have children. I sorry that young person thought there was no other way but just maybe he's in heaven with God now and he is happy.
2006-07-18 04:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is never good to commit suicide, and being homeless, molested, abused or lonely is no excuse. There are ways to get help. Millions of people are molested as wrong as it is. Lots of people are homeless, although that can be changed. There are shelters that will help you to get on your feet and not be homeless. He should have gotten some help, grew up to be the bigger person and showed his mother that he did not need her in his life to make something of himself. The best way to show someone that what they did to you did not matter, and only made you stronger is to better yourself and not let them get you down. If everyone that was abused and molested and thrown out killed themselves this wold would have a lot less people in it.
2006-07-18 04:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The God that I believe in doesn't punish us eternally for a weakness of the flesh, in this case being unable to handle the suffering of life.
I believe that your friend's soul is now at peace, with an understanding about the situation and how it fits into the universal plan that you and I cannot have from this vantage point.
There is no explanation that suffices for the mom's actions, but I would tell you that she has wounded you emotionally and the only way to overcome that is to let it go... I am sure that your friend wants you to be happy. Your bitterness is getting in the way of that now.
Trust that your friend is at peace, and that those who cause suffering will get their own in good time, now or later. Life is too short, and too precious, for you to waste it on bitterness.
2006-07-18 04:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by juniemoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only way that he could have gone to heaven is by trusting in the Lord, Jesus Christ. If he has heard the Word and rejected the Word, he has not hope of seeing heaven. But, if he did not hear the word, he is as a babe in the eyes of the Lord, and the Lord would take him home. What would heaven be without little children.
2006-07-18 04:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some would cruelly say yes to all cases of suicide, but I think we can never make such rash generalizations, especially in cases such as this. One thing is certain to me, God sees and knows so much that we don't know or see. The Lord will have to judge that person based on his all knowing, all seeing eye. Salvation is through faith in Christ, God's Son. If this person had saving faith, despite their horrible emotional and physical pain, then they would be with the Lord now. I of course hope this person did have genuine saving faith... but I certainly would never condemn them to hell because of a sad choice they had made... Their eternal destiny is in God's hands... Man does not make this final choice.
2006-07-18 04:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Heatmizer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he commited suicide because of that, it's on his mother's hands. his mother will pay sevenfold for what she did. I cannot tell if he would go to heaven, since i am not god, nor do i control the cycle of life. but i personally believe that everyone is entitled to a new life after they die (rebirth, new universe, etc) So that heaven, to me, would be however he lives his new life.
2006-07-18 04:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Child of Coal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to some, the bible says that if you take your own life, you will not be allowed into heavan, but I believe that is all in the way you interpert things.
As to how can a mother be so cruel- she is the one that should be worried.
2006-07-18 07:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ask Dr. Dottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, his mother is at fault, but he will still not get into Heaven, it tells in the Bible that committing suicide is against God, and so that's how i know...
yes, his Mother should get punished too...
2006-07-18 04:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not here to judge. God will determine his fate. For we are no better, all have sinned and come up short before God
2006-07-18 04:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Go Rush! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he 'll not go to heaven b'cos their has been alot of people passing through alot of problem more than dat so in every condition u see ur self put ur faith in god
2006-07-18 04:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by ask4ucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋