The girl I know is in college,and comes from a decent family.She has been dating this guy for about 4-5 months now.He has gotten her pregnant,and she had an abortion.He also has herpes that he might have given to her.He doesn't want a job because he thinks it's stupid to work for a living.Lives in a one bedroom apt. that he shares with his dad.Also pops pills everyday,and has introduced her to them as well.She said if he doesn't get a job or diploma she will leave,but that was months ago,and he laughs when she brings it up.Is she as much of a loser as him,or is she just confused?
2006-07-18 03:51:44 · 18 answers · asked by albeez650 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-18 03:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend has had genital herpes for about eight months now, and it's been really rough. She's had about 7 outbreaks. Everywhere I read it says it stops flaring up so much after time, but its not getting less frequent for her. She's been on Antiviral meds the whole time, too. She also has type 1 diabetes which she has had her whole life, which really weakens her immune system. Will it ever get better?
But after a friend share this video everything has changed.
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2016-05-14 22:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think she may have been on a good track until she met this guy. He has pulled her down into the gutter with him, but she has allowed it. I am sure she knows he has herpes and I am sure she knows she has it now. If that is the life she wants to live, there is nothing you can do about it. Even her parents will not be able to persuade her differently. She will eventually stop talking to you if you persist in downing him. The best thing is for her to wake up and smell the coffee on her own. Like a drug addict, they have to hit rock bottom before they realize what they are truly missing and doing to theirselves. I know it's hard to sit by and watch someone destroy theirselves, but they are not going to listen. People have to learn the hard way for some reason. This may be the life she wants. Good thing she had the sense of having an abortion. She definitely doesn't want this dead beat dad. She may think things are going to get better. That he will eventually want a life with her and want to make a living for them. Most women want that so bad that they will endure hell itself for it to happen, but the truth is, it's not going to get better, but worse. She will eventually figure this out and hopefully it want be too late. She is a big girl. She can make her own decisions. If her decisions are bad, then that is something she will have to deal with. Hopefully, she will learn from it. If she has a big drug problem now, then I suggest you get her parents to admit her into a drug/alcohol rehab, but if she knows you did it, she will hate you for it. Later on down the road, if she wakes up and realizes that you did it for her and to protect her, she may understand, but now, the drugs are in control and more important to her than anything else. Good luck.
2006-07-18 04:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that there could be two situations
a) you say this girl comes from a good family and was raised well ect. so maybe it is a type of rebellious act?
b) sometimes you like someone and lust for them so much that you can become blind to the person they really are (even if that person is doing horrible things and going nowhere in life) girls sometimes believe they can change a man for the better
if you really care about this girl and she is your friend i would suggest trying to really sit down and talk with her, and if that doesnt work get a few of her friends/family members who feel the same way to all get together and have a sort of an intervention
good luck
2006-07-18 03:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by tustudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like (if she already wasn't) that she is getting into drugs. That is the #1 reason for a girl like her to be with a guy such as him. I once knew of a really ugly guy with baked bean teeth, never washed or brushed his hair who always had strippers and models as girlfriends because he could get them drugs. Sad but true. You should help her get away from him and drugs.
2006-07-18 04:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a dummy. A decent girl deserves a decent man who cna take care of her. Some on who has goals and ambition. Someone who is going to make something of themselves. Tell your friend this is what she needs and deserves. Tell her to drop that loser befor she become one too. Or has she already become one. Hopefully his "habits" won't rub off on her. Please tell her this.
2006-07-18 03:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know an "ex-addict" who s 35 (female) n seeing a guy of 22. He s on hard drugs. She says that She is going to help him Detox at HOME...His home. She must take 4 diff Meds to help her cope w/ the effects of her own drug use. She has OCD, ADHD, high anxiety n the like. So Many total Losers out there n it s sooo Sad.
2015-03-22 16:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either shes in deep denial or whatt..
but that girl needs a true blunt friend right about now to tell her straight out how dumb she's being right now.
seems as if shes got no morals or values,and sadly..she deserves what she gets if she can't do anything about it
2006-07-18 11:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we think others foolish for the situations they find themselves in but we all need to understand that maybe she see something in him that none else see she might soon become wise and leave or he might just change love dose this to people give it time you'll see
2006-07-18 04:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them both a hat with a capital L on it. Let their destiny rain on them and you move on to a more positive path
2006-07-18 03:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loser...shes easily influenced
2006-07-18 03:56:00 · answer #11 · answered by HotBarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋