I met a guy from the internet in person & we got a long great. He travelled 2 hours to see me. We messaged eachother nearly every day after that night. Last Sunday he asked me if I'd like to go on a date with him. I travelled 2 hours this time to see him & I was stood up. He didn't message me till that night. And he didn't tell me what happened...
Anyway... I gave him a second chance & he came down here last Thursday. We spent 12 hours together. He gave me the money back for the train tickets I wasted. He bought me lunch. He bought the tickets to the movies & he bought me drinks at the concert we went to. Before the main band came on, we left & went to the car & I had my first real kiss. And that became a make out session for an hour & a half, haha. Then he had to leave to work at 5am.
I've been thinking about that night a lot. He seemed to really care about me and smiled at me a lot. I've been wondering if all he wanted was sex even though he didn't try. He's coming down Sunday.
2006-07-18 03:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've known him since the end of May. I'm 18 & he's 22. He says I'm a great woman & wants to date me. He's very open. He's told me a lot about his life & family. I asked him after our first meeting if he was just in it for the sex & he said no. He also told me that he'd met 4 other women off the net & met them. At that moment he was still talking to 2 of them & he'd had sex with 1 of them. I'm afraid to ask about them again. We got pretty close on the first date. And I told him a while ago that I know longer want to be a virgin after my 19th in November & he said he'd help me out, haha. He said he could see me in his future as a girlfriend & I really like him. He never puts me down & he's a great kisser.
2006-07-18 03:43:18 · update #1
When he messaged me I told him I just wanna know why u didnt show. The first thing he said was "cause i'm a prick" and I said that didn't answer it & then he said "I went to the doctors then home but thats no excuse" he said sorry a few times & when he was holding me in the car he told me my friend had threatened him that if he broke my heart, he'd be dead. He said he'd never make that mistake again.
He always messaged me, even if he was working & I used to tell him your supposed to be working I'll talk to u later but he always kept messaging me. He said he'd always have time for me.
2006-07-18 03:43:34 · update #2
He is playing you. Don't be his fool. Dump him before he dumps you. He was probably with another girl when he didn't show up and he was telling you the truth when he said he was a prick.
2006-07-18 03:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mawyemsekhmet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds nice to me! Keep going on with the relationship! I don't however know if he is in it for sex or not so what i would suggest is to not lose your virginity to him when you turn 19. Keep it longer and then see how things go between the two of you.
Honestly, he sounds great - a bit of a prick in the beginning of your 'story' though but to me he is a man and men will always do those type of things. lol.
Be safe! Have fun and don't do anything you will regret!
Kim
2006-07-18 10:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl looks and actions are not all what they seem to be. It think you might be rushing into things I would take the time to know him better before you get into a relationship with him or sleep with him. This guy just might be a sweet talker and just want one thing I mean you never know. (Talk is cheap) So I would have you get to know him better before you start a relationship. I know how you feel this guy makes you feel like you are his princess and you are everything trust me how I know how that feels unfortunately my relationship didn't work out because his looks were deceiving but in your case I hope it does work just take it slow!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-07-18 10:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like an honest enough relationship...one that you have enough info to make a character judgment of him...To me it sounds like he will give yourselves a chance to work out but he does have other prospects that he entertains too...I think if you and he hit it off that he will want to be an exclusive couple but not until you've dated alittle more...good luck..pay attention to the signs because this relationship can go either way.
2006-07-18 10:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are great when you first start going out with them but he's same nice just don't pt all your hopes into this guy and get to know him very will before you give him your virginity and please what ever you do don't put your everything and all in him but good luck i hope it works out not all guys are the same most guys only wants sex and they will be the best bf or date before they get what they want
2006-07-18 10:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just to let u know, it will never be just u and him. He already has 4 other girls that he is talking too, and obviously he likes it that way. I would not let him hurt u because he will.
2006-07-18 10:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by luvinmjc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was his reason for missing your date? i'm thinking he is commited already, maybe you should get his home # and make a few calls throughout the day to see who answers.
2006-07-18 10:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so good when it all starts up but hye be careful don't be so much carried away insist on making love after a year or more of knowing him. ok?
2006-07-18 10:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Prisca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just gonna dump you after he takes your virginity away. he just wants you for sex and thats all.
2006-07-18 10:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's already talking to 2 others girls i would back off.
2006-07-18 10:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋