Would go though with your wedding plans if you found out she was a prostitute and had been with some people you know when you first met but quit after she started falling in love with you ?
2006-07-18 03:36:11 · 21 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a married prostitute -- that's how I met my husband, he was one of my "watchers" - paid real good to.
2006-07-18 06:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Only if you've seen the real change to turn over that life with or without you. If the real change doesnt come from within, when something doesnt turn good in your relationship, i bet the first thing she will resort back to will be that life again. Always believe the truth upfront in courtship, as that reveals the sincerity and transparency of a person - their character. Hope you found that out from her and not someone else cos that would be devastating. If she had revealed to you herself then its good, shows her genuineness and sincerity...or did she tell you after she was found out, than that would mean there will probably be a lot more things she may hide from you in future until you find it out from someone else. If you can live with non communication, non transparency and secrecy or will it eventually reach up to your neck with this intentional deception and cover up? If the latter....then you may want to reconsider this relationship. The worse devastation is after marriage when you've given your all...it will be a lot harder to deal with emotionally. So be discerning...what does your heart tell you?? Perhaps the sweet love talk can be deception only you will tell based on what transpired between you two and when. Lastly, can you live with the fact she had slept with people you know. In amidst of making love, how will it affect you?? Will it affect the way you love her and will it affect your lovemaking??? If yes and maybe....reconsider...seriously!!!!
2006-07-18 10:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dodobird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well women go thru it everyday. we meet guys who are players and master muniplators. so if you care for her then marry her. what she did in the past has nothing to do with you. ive met guys that i thought were fine but turned out to be worst than a prostitute. cuz at least a prostitute gets paid. so most people have been out there and still are but if you find the right one then its time to let that bull alone in the streets.
2006-07-18 10:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt but ur not me.
im guessing you met her when she was a prostitute and she was ur first and u fell in love with her. so that didnt stop u then so why should it stop u now. hope u got an aids test done.
2006-07-18 10:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh--I don't think so. I would probably put the wedding off "for a while, honey" and then break up before you set another date.
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2006-07-18 10:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Fatherbobmarley needs to go to the political area.
2006-07-18 10:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that question, we don't know enough about her present state of mind to make a real decision to help you out. people change and their situations change, good luck.
2006-07-18 10:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ., If she loved me truly I presume she would have told me the truth beforehand., then I would surely marry her
2006-07-18 10:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never at least I must be the first one to know her in my group.
My friends must admire her not evn my cousins know her.
2006-07-18 10:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by lolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to one
2006-07-18 10:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋