I,ve been with this person for a while. I care deeply for him. He takes me for granted. It's been stressful. One minute everything is ok than all of a sudden it's over because of an argument. I want out. When I try to talk to him it never works. What should I do?
2006-07-18 02:50:25 · 21 answers · asked by lil one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you are sure, it can be done. Remember, he will never change. Tell him it's absolutely over. You are moving on. You are going to begin dating someone else and you will no longer be answering his emails, phone calls, etc. Then do it and stick to it. Good Luck. Been there, did it. It's not pretty, but it can be done.
2006-07-18 02:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obviously best that you leave this person because who wants to be with a man who takes you for granted? It sounds like this is a one sided relationship where you try to keep things real but he uses dumb arguements to get away. There is no point in you staying in this relationship, leave as soon as possible you're only wasting your time.
2006-07-18 09:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out and stay out no matter what he says. The reality here is that the power to end the relationship is in your hands your just chosing not to take it because you really want things to work with this guy. The issue here is with you and your inability to make up your own mind. Ask yourself why haven't you just left. Nothing anyone says here can help you if you are not willing to help yourself.
2006-07-18 09:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think its worth it to be in a stressful relationship with somebody you don't even love, just care deeply for. Love yourself more. I would cut him off.
2006-07-18 10:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun If u out then get out let him know and follow through with it. Exclude yourself from him. The more you fight with him the more your head wont be rite. Its not rite for someone to take advantage of another person and the more you let him the worst it will get. Please email me if you need more advise or the situation worsens
2006-07-18 09:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by singh.amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, don't EVER let someone do that to you!!!
Stress will age you before your time!!
Just tell him that you don't want to see him, anymore. He will ONLY BE MAD, because he didn't break up with you, FIRST!!!
So let him get mad.
Don't answer his calls---avoid him, at all costs---he will get the message---and DON'T give in and talk "just one more time"
2006-07-18 09:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. Don't talk, write. Leave a note, write it all down (away from his influence) and say just what you said here...it's not working. The drama is too much.
2006-07-18 09:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by about2teach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems similar on my situation...
my boyfriend and I have just broke up recently... he doesn't have any time for me because he is busy in his work... for one month, I am contented with the flow of our relationship... one or two text messages everyday coming from him... until I have found someone who gives me all the attention... we shared same affection until I have realized that I'm fallin from him... I have decided to tell it to my boyfriend... He is the one who broke up with me...
just sharing...
well, If I were you... don't broke up with him unless you found someone new...
2006-07-18 10:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by witty_mhaen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont go out with him anymore and find someone who would care deeply for you.
2006-07-18 09:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a "dear John" letter or do something that will make him want to break up with you
2006-07-18 09:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋